"It may help othere' understanding when I say I've been through a house fire. If you've had that experience, you become very, very conservative in the use of anything that heats up."
I think this is very understandable.
I have never been through a fire, but I am conservative and even neurotic. I think part of it was my mother's attitudes, particularly towards electricity. My grandmother was also quite safety conscious, putting it mildly. (During one visit, there was a news story on TV about, as I recall, Jeep rollover incidents. I had to promise on the spot that I'd never, ever own a Jeep.) Then there were those fire safety units in school that were more frightening and graphic than any adult horror movie, which didn't help. (Making matters worse, one of my classmates father worked for the fire department. His father was happy to come and give talks to my class, and he had plenty of exhibits to bring, like a Christmas tree top angel that had started a fire, and burned a house down.) After all this, it's not surprising I'm neurotic at times. Indeed, it's amazing I don't live in an all concrete, fireproof house with no wiring, and nothing inflammable about....