Yeah, probably the fact that they like to play "let's hide the salami", with other players who have one to hide also.
As long as society discriminates against the gays, there will be huge incentive for the closeted/ bi to get married to the opposite gender to derive the benefits and status that that affords one.
But what fun it is when the wife finds the hubby's "personal massagers" and checks his internet viewing history and (computer) cookies. That and the ski she finds that he requires to be strapped on to his male partners' @$$ sideways so that they don't fall in.
If both parties are unrelated, of age, consenting and single it's no one's business.
When a relative attempts to tell me who's plowing someone's else garden, (yes this I think is WHY they all go to church, to gossip) I simply say "It doesn't affect you or your life and you don't know if they have the spouse's permission or what their "arragement" is; so zip it".
Why all the hang-ups in this day and age?
And besides, with what overpopulation is doing to the world, (potentially) reporoductive sex should really be regulated; it's slowly killing us all, and out planet. *LOL*