Apparently the woman is a hot mess and recently got into trouble for attacking some guy (another bf)with one of her high heels. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tawny_Kitaen
reminds me of the expression here, in the south, "she's a mess"(affectionate way of saying that person, albeit liked, is nuts/crazy/confused/beyond control and goodluck with them, lol.