If we were all alike, it would be a very boring world. There are many reason people have to use or not use dishwashers. Whatever is comfortable to them is fine. It's their decison.
Hiya Barry!
Hope you made it through the holiday intact.
As for your opening comment, indeed, people are all different, with different DNA, preferences and opinions.
It's human nature of course.
As for dishwashers:
I don't get all ape-crapped over such things, sure I'll use it, on occasion, when needed, if I'm doing a lot of cooking or entertaining.
That's what it's there for, to add some convenience and make a big job easier.
However, being alone at home, I don't generate a lot of dishes, etc.
So hand washing one or two plates, a cup or glass, a few untensils, etc., doesn't warrant my needing to chuck them in the DW, to sit in there, waiting.
Those things take me maybe less than 5 minutes to clean and put in the countertop sink dish rack. - no big deal.
But to hear someone spilling heavy
whine, sounding like a damsel-in-distress over not being able to use their non-functional dishwasher, cracks me up.
Besides, it's only a temporary inconvenience, not a death penalty.