many here would claim, get rid of the wife/partner, keep the machine!...
cant say for all, but many cars and machines will outlast most relationships....
second question is who does the laundry?....you might want to consider doing all the laundry yourself, versus how many headaches you may get from a new machine, and from her when it doesn't work......
many here would say, "I told you so!"
not judging, just sayin'.....