Stand Up Guys
It has been my pleasure to meet Ben, John and Jon and have developed a pleasant friendship with Tom although we have never met. This is a case where a machine filters the humananity from the author. Ben is a mechanical genius, has accomplished so many things at such a young age, is a budding intellectual and one the kindest, most generous and unsuming people I have met. John can sound caustic in an email but I suspect it is a product of writing invoices for so many years and listing the pros and cons in bullet points. To meet John is to instantly want to know him more. How one man who is so busy can find the time to run a business, have a successful relationship, be a participating player in his family and then mentor and advise us all is almost unbelievable. John is kind, compassionate and insightful and can't wait for the next oppotunity to be together. I struggled with Jon. He is obviously a key player, has a great collection, loves to cook and collects all things house making yet I hadn't found an inroad for connection. Meeting Jon is Long Beach was a surprise to find such a brilliant continental gentleman but a witty, self effacing, warm and inclusive manner that made feel chagrinned for my former critical thoughts. I have always been drawn to Tom's amazing memory, his willingness to open up and share equally with us all and he has always been open and available to me on a number of subjects club related and personal. I might daresay Tom has been the recipient of as many pot shots and vitriol as any member in the group and somehow he finds the grace to continue with dignity and aplumb. Reading some of the posts in missing Longtimers hints of past flame ups have been alluded to. In the case of this thread we saw Ben simply ask for what he felt he wanted, John apologized and disarmed any issues and Tom and Jon had an opportunity to offer up what they do best, a little tongue in cheek tit for tat. In Andy's thread regarding his new coppertone Lady Kenmores I made a disparaging remark about agitators that quickly took the thread in a discussion of money and culture detracting from the beautiful machines. I was saddened by my selfishness and Andy was gracious enough not to hold it against me. I am so very proud to know these men and gratified for the thoughts we all have shared. You are an amazing man Ben and as always your work is nothing short of genius.