Kelly - I read your posts with such utter amazement. How lucky your guests are to be welcomed into your home with so much love and care given to each and every morsel of food. What I wouldn't give to be on the guest list someday!
From an early age I learned from my mother that preparing food for others was much more than slopping something on a plate and dishing it out. Cooking for others - whether close loved ones or total strangers - was a way of reflecting one's love and respect for humanity, and a means to express the affection in one's heart for those gathered around your table. In reading your wonderful posts and seeing you in action, I know that your cooking and baking comes directly from your heart, and I think it is the most beautiful gift that you share with those around you.
How blessed to celebrate your grandaughter's first birthday with such a feast! So even if the Thanksgiving crowd was small, I'm glad you had a houseful to enjoy the birthday party - lucky guests one and all! I would have loved a piece of that coconut cake!!
Hugs to you!