Ah, but, Louis
If my emails inbox is anything to judge by, we old Europeans are morally debased and personally debauched.
Hmm, I can think of worse names to be called.
Sex for conservative Americans (and many American gays, to my personal shock, are super right wing conservative - I never knew until I signed on here, truly I didn't) is something dirty and sinful and therefor something you do because of the kick of being dirty and sinful, not because it is a joyous gift to us.
A very unusual culture, truly - I wonder if this rejection of homosexual love and sex has anything to do with the propensity to torture?