Thanksgiving!
What's not to love?
You're going grocery shopping and (maybe) to the florist anyway.
Thanksgiving does not have to be bought, wrapped, packed, shipped.
Thanksgiving does not have to be drunken to be fun.
Thanksgiving can be utterly delicious.
(it's worth roasting a turkey just for leftovers!)
For years, my family on my Da's side had our family reunion on Thanksgiving, or Thanksgiving weekend. Small years, just about 40. Big years, 80-100. (The 100 was when one of my second cousins got married that day, and the deception was held at the Thanksgiving house.)
For many years, I was part of the Food Committee, and peeled 25-35 pounds of potatoes for mashers. And some years I made all three cranberry sauces.....
This was literally up the street from us..my Great Aunt and Uncle...she of the Youngstown Kitchens dishwasher.....and it was used that day!
Now, it's some weekend in July, in Northern Kentucky.
Not the same.
Having that as a background, I am gently amused when hostesses yelp about having a Thanksgiving "crowd" of 10!
As for Christmas, I love Christmas, but could do without the commercial, expectation-laden, expensive, bloated bull that seems to be fatally(?) intertwined.
For many years, my statement has been: "If I could go to sleep the day after Thanksgiving, and wake up on February 20th, I would."
Lawrence/Maytagbear