gay percentage question

[sdlee]

whoa guys, let me type it out already!!!

pt 1,Ok well we all have heard the story about the coach that accosted the young man and that was the guys first gay expierence.

It occurs to me that I have heard this from so many guys that I m beginging to think that all coaches must be gay and I should have paid more attention in gym class.

My question is what do you guys think, when you hear this story do you think yeah right ( coz in reality what horn dog who has worked his ass off to be a teacher is going to really take the chance of throwing all that away just to be with some freaking acne infested yo yo that is more than likely to blab that the coachs extra cirricular activities are the stuff porn legends are made of) ( exceptions ofcorse to the few sickos in the news recently)

Or do you believe yeah, thats likely, most coaches I know had no morals or values and no teenage butt in town was safe.

Your percentage please, how many are horney little raging hardons always on the hunt and how many are just coaches with an
ease at being comfortable and affectionate with other men.

Pt 2, because I know how inquistive some of you can be I will post the why to this question so you dont even have to ask....yes theres a coach Im intrested in and he seems intrested in me. We are both plenty old enough to fight for our country and go have drink to celebrate the Victory.

Problem is I have no Gaydar. A guy could slap me in the face with his...... and if he then denied he meaning anything by it Id prolly give him the benefit of the doubt.I tend to take people at thier word.

This guy is married, has children and is a coach either of a local high school,or Jr High.

We dont work together but he is frequently at my work. he has on occasion hugged me, put his hand on my shoulder for a squeeze that was engulfing,warm, and a little bit longer than what would be normal, has reached over the counter bumped the bottom of my chin up lightly and ask to see my smile, and finally today when I helped him he went to swat my ass playfully like a coach would do to one of his his team members..he laughed and stopped himself saying "I almost gave you an atta boy for that but I guess that wouldnt be too appropriate here."

I made light and said in my quickest wit "Esp between two grown men" and left it at that.

And I will leave this at that and await to see what you guys think of this whole situation.Im not waiting to act on anything anyone says, I am just intrested in your assesments.
Lee

 

[panthera]

Lee,

1) Every couch I had was a decent man, at least two were gay.
2) He is married with kids. are you out of your mind?

 

[hydralique]

What he said, line #2

 

[frontaloadotmy]

With Low Resolution Gaydar

If it walks like a duck , and quacks like a duck,
It's probably a duck.

 

[ptcruiser51]

What he said, line #2.

You have to wonder about a man that would make a career out of stepping over sweaty jockstraps and hanging with naked men-men-men-men-manly-men-men-men (theme from "2-1/2 Men").

And: Never date bisexuals - they can cheat on you with twice as many people.

 

[spiceman1957]

Lee,

From what I read here, I think he has a crush on you. Now the big question is, How do you feel about this? If its makes you feel uncomfortable, tell him that. If this is a small town, and he is a coach/teacher in a high school, and has a wife and children, BE VERY CAREFUL!

And to ptcruiser51, you hit the nail there. Every bisexual guy I ever been with was BORING!!

 

[danemodsandy]

Goodgodamighty!

First: What. He. Said. Line 2.

Second: Messing around with a married man may be the stuff of some people's fantasies, but in the real world, it's an excellent way to end up with your sex life forever enshrined in publicly accessible divorce court documents, in salacious, prurient, excruciating detail.

 

[super32]

I aggree with the masses here. I have been with Married/bisexual men in the past but gave that up years ago. I find the bisexual/married are the same as so called gay men who are not "out". Always hiding, looking over their shoulder. It no fun and ends up not going anywhere.

 

[gansky1]

The coach in my middle school turned out to be gay, a friend of mine "found out" some years later. It was a bit of a shock to me as he would laugh and not interrupt when some of the boys were picking on someone, taunting them with "faggot" and the like. IIRC, he got into some hot water for not intervening in one of these instances that turned violent.

As far as dating/meeting bi or "straight" married men, I have had only one experience myself with someone that was "exploring" and one who was married and traveling on business and they were very enthusiastic and exciting. Would I date one of them? No. I dated a guy once that had been in a (pathetic) relationship with a married guy for quite a while, even had dinner at the house with the wife. It was his first experience with men and supposedly, the wife didn't know anything was going on. What an idiot she must have been, the poor dear. They later divorced (no children) and he died of complications of AIDS last year.

I was told once to be very careful and ultra-safe with the married/bi/straight boys as they can be lulled into a false sense of security that it was "just that one time" and "I'm not gay so I don't have to worry about it". It sounds silly, but there is an entire generation that didn't live through the AIDS epidemic and tragically knows very little about the dangers of unsafe behaviors. Be safe. Be safe. BE SAFE!

 

[iheartmaytag]

Dont know about the male Gym teachers

But to sound a little stereotypical here. Both the female gym teachers in my high school were gay. It was just an unspoken secret, and beleive it or not; even in that little southern Il town--no body cared.

 

[xraytech]

Well, as for the gym teachers in our small high school(When I say The female gym teacher was a lesbian and it was known and she was one of the manliest people I have ever met but was the nicest person you could know, She would always wear a pair of plaid shorts and either a pink or yellow polo shirt every day no matter how cold it was, she also was very into riding motorcycles with her partner who was just as manly, she was a coach at a local college.
Meanwhile the male gym teacher was straight and it was a well known that he was having a fling with one of the history teachers who was the biggest bitch in the whole district.

Also in this area there are a lot of men who are gay but married and had children because that kind of thing was and still is looked down upon in our rural area.So depending on the area they may just be putting up a front especially in small communities where everyone knows your name.
If I were I were you I would becareful and not push anything and let him lead where he wants things to go for if you may be reading him wrong so you don't possibly ruin a good friendship..

Sam

 

[dogboy44]

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