I still haven't gotten over the fact that since my mother died, my sister and I can't get what;s left of the family together for Christmas - strange thing was that was HER holiday and no one ever missed it. Now all the cousins have a story of why they can't come between teenage children;s activities, in laws, etc...
But I digress. So we have Christmas eve and Christmas day with friends we have known for over 45 years and since our parents were best friends, it is kind of the same as family. So our meal for Christmas day will be:
Grill roasted beef tenderloin with horseradish sauce, a very rich mashed potato casserole (named Party Potatoes Beverly after the originator of the recipe), corn pudding and spinach gratin (courtesy of Ina Garten's Barefoot Contessa recipes), bacon wrapped green beans, sauteed broccoli rabe and a large simple salad of mixed greens, herbs, radishes and thinly sliced fennel. I am always amazed at what all people put in salads, dried fruit, nuts, cheese, etc.. What people don't remember is that salad at the end of a heavy meal should be simple and refresh your palate. So the dressing is usually just extra virgin olive oil and either lemon juice of red wine vinegar with perhaps just a drop of balsamic as a condiment. Of course I am providing the potatoes, broccoli rabe, corn pudding, salad and the spinach gratin as well as the bread - just some plain baguettes from the local French bakery. AFter all, if someone does something better than I do like make fantastic bread, why shouldn't I take advantage?? I also found beautiful beets in both orange and traditional red - not sure what I will do with them yet but couldn't pass them up.
While I am not the host, I don't mind bringing most of the sides. This time of year, I find working in the kitchen comforting and reminiscent of the years where we would be madly preparing for the 25 people who would descend on us Christmas Day.
I do miss making strufoli, those fried Italian dough balls coated with honey, candied fruit and colored sprinkles but that is easily a two person job and a lot of work and this year, just not enough time. I also miss my mother's cherry cookies - sort of a linzer tart looking cookie filled with ground dried tart cherries that have been soaked in amaretto. Kind of like adult Fig Newtons. Maybe next year...