Speaking of relatives...
I have a cousin in her late 70's who is "not hurting for money." She is the daughter of my favorite aunt who passed away in 1973. Having been a "change of life" baby I never knew any of my grandparents and this aunt was a serrogate grandmother to me. Anyhoo, one day last summer I received a telephone call from this cousin who was very excited. She said she had a yard sale and couldn't want to tell me that while cleaning out some of my aunt's things (none of which were offered to any of my family members) she came across a sewing kit I had given to my aunt for Christmas back in 1965 and told me I had handwritten the sweetest note which was attached to the kit. The kit had never been used and she sold it for a WHOLE DIME! She was soooo excited that she got a whole dime for the kit and it never occurred to her to offer the kit to me. Heck, I would have given her a whole dollar for the kit! I don't remember the kit nor do I remember having given it to my aunt. However, I would have loved to have had it and I would have cherrished it. I have to say that I was both pissed and hurt. I mean, why call and tell me about the kit then tell me she sold it for a whole dime. Self-centered idiot.