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alasdair

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Hello and good evening,
I am wondering, I have always had an obsession with washing machines right back to the early 60s when I apparently would spend hours sitting happily in front of my mother's Bendix Dialomatic front loader watching the washing going round and round! I remember the huge disappointment when my family went to live in germany and the bendix was replaced with a hoover keymatic with no window, this was appeased somewhat by the fact that a friend of my parents had a hoover twintub and I was allowed to stand and watch it wash!
Through all the years that followed I remember being heavily involved with helping with the various machines owned by the family including bendix 7147 and various other front loaders, I reached the age where I could start to own my own machines and accumulated in my mid 20s a collection of hotpoint twintubs top loaders and various front loaders.
They did then and still do fascinate me! I have a home in the UK and another in spain, this is brilliant as I can now justify having more than one washing machine and now have in the UK an american Fridgidaire top loader and dryer, and in spain a new LG top loader! the Fridgidaire is easy I can put a pen in the lid switch and watch it wash, the LG a little more difficult as it requires a big magnet being held at the back of the control panel to operate with the lid open! I also have still for some reason a hotpoint twintub here in spain, I think this is somekind of security blanket to fall back on when feeling insecure1
I am a partnered Gay man, I also have aspergers syndrome!
What I was wondering is: How much of my interest is typical of gay men, for whatever reason, and how much is the typical behaviour of aspergers people being fascinated by spinning objects!
I can be very very stressed about any given subject and make myself totaly relaxed by spending time at my washing machine watching it work! Funnily enough I am told that when a baby if upset or discontent my mother could play Eartha Kitt music put me by the washer and I would be happy to settle and sleep!
Perhaps you will regard this as a strange letter, but just wondered what sort of proportion of washing machine collectors are Gay and if I was alone amongst us in having Aspergers.
 
Welcome! I can't say how many people here have Aspergers, but I think, if we're honest, many of us are at least a bit obsessive. However, I prefer the term 'passionate', LOL.

There are quite a few gay men who frequent this site, but certainly not everyone. And everyone who plays nicely is welcome here.

Be sure to check out all the videos of washers, and the old American television commercials.
 
Welcome.

There is plenty of all you describe here.

Like any family we ALL have our quirks, and try to respect each-other even with our faults!

Enjoy yourself and try to brush off any negativity you see-- it's the only way to survive here and in life!

Yes, Dorothy there is no place like "HOME" (AW!)
 
Hello Alasdair

Thanks for your post! I hope you enjoy this space.

I know a bit about Aspergers because my sister's little boy is autistic. I know one of the many signs of Aspergers is a fascination with spinning objects and water. It is no surprise to find that washing machines would be of great interest. Of course, I am not suggesting that everyone that likes washers or spinning objects is Aspie, but given the difficultly of diagnosis it would not surprise me if some people out there were Aspie but did not know it! Adult diagnosis is particularly difficult.

The gay thing has always interested me too! I am gay and love my washers. The interesting thing about washers is the way they traditionally split the sexes. Take the average husband and wife (in old fashioned non PC land). Women do the washing and most men wouldn't have a clue about programmes etc.. However, if something goes wrong there is the man with his spanner fixing it. Men probably also designed the machine. Quite where this fits with gay men is a mystery. I suppose we take on both roles. We are after all big butch men (well some of us LOL) and like design and engineering. On the other hand we rely on ourselves to get the washing done and also are not too afraid of feminine pursuits. Everyone is individual but I'm sure there is a theme somewhere.

Anyway I have gone on a bit.

Welcome to the site

Rob
 

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