Twintub, I think your kitchen is delightful, cheerful and functional and I like the updates you've made to it. White it is/would be for me as well, barring any cool mid century colored sets.
Should anyone remark negatively again, suggest that perhaps you will consider installing stainless steel if she is willing to come over and clean it daily. Even so, I know only one person I think that actually knows how to do it right, and he has ss only because it came in a house he otherwise liked.
I do like my stainless steel sink, but that's all the ss I need to be cleaning, thanks very much! As for the builtin steamer, my personal opinion would be no. 220 and a drain plus a hole in the counter seems a bit much for something like that that you may not even use that much, given other available alternatives.
How do you like living in Palm Springs, after having lived in Northern CA? Did it take time to get used to the heat?
Danemodsandy, I think your friend handled that situation most graciously, considering. Clearly not much of a real estate person if she can sell things only state of the art in the last few years, not to mention showing no courtesy or respect to a prospective client.
Volvoguy, I think the d/w he's talking about at his mom's was before reversible panels. Painting would probably work fine, or perhaps another panel will be located.