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Ben,

I have been there and done that Many times and its not nice. What I did was after any arrangements were finished is start to go thru everything and sort, especially what you want to keep for yourself and sentimental value, keeps your mind off it. I have one close niece left and thats about it.
Its sucks to loose someone so suddenly. My brother had a sudden heart attack on Veterans Day and I had to help my niece figure all the crap out, It Sucks! I feel your pain and hurt.

Tim
 
Thank you everyone

I love all of you for what you do for me during this difficult time. I just had pastor over for some spiritual uplifting and I've been on phone with co-workers, dad's friends, etc. While I realize that there is nothing anyone can do to make all the hurt, anger, and sorrow go away, just being able to talk to someone, anyone in fact, has been a blessing.

I have a request and I understand in advance if no one is comfortable with this. I don't have a premium account so I cannot receive PM but my email is in my profile. If anyone on here is willing, I sure would like your number so I can call if anything just to talk or perhaps for those who have "been there, done that", you might be able to offer up a perspective or some sage advice on how to cope with this.

I have vonage so LD calls are no cost to me. Again, I know this is an odd request but if you can be there for advice or just plain ole BS about stuff, I sure would appreciate it. LIke I said, I have not spoken to any relative on dad's side for 25+ years and on my mon's side............her sis in law is in Cyprus, 1 nephew is in Dubai, the other London, the other heck I don't know where (but I did speak to them even if they are half a world away). Just 9 days ago, my uncle passed on my mom's side after a lengthy stay in a hospital. His body simply fell apart. All this happened while my dad was up here on a visit no less! Talk about a double whammy.

Again, thanks to all for your help and advice. It means the world to me.
 
Hi, Ben...

 

So sorry for your loss--it was a huge one to have lost my mom, going on six-years-ago, and after my daughter had been born a year before...

 

May all of us folks here at AW, be the right comfort source--and others out there in person, too, that you can be with in this Bitter Now...

 

 

-- Dave
 
I am deeply and sincerely sorry

My Dad died of a heart attack in 1965, Ma faded away in early 2001. It is a club most of us join eventually. Remember the fun and love.

Lawrence/Maytagbesr
 
Ben,

So sorry to hear about the passing of your dad. Just take some comfort in knowing that according to what you've been told he passed from natural causes and didn't have a lengthy suffering.

My deepest sympathy and sincere condolences go out to you at this trying time.

May he R.I.P.

Rick (Washdaddy)
 


I'm vary sorry to hear this news. Its hard to deal with everything just stay strong and remember he wants the best for you. You will be in my prayers.

Anthony
 
Sorry for your Loss Ben!

Your dad can now have fun with my folks. 73 is young for today, like the new 55 in my opinion, health issues or not.
My mom was only 77. My mother in law celebrated her 80th this month. She looks only 73 to me.
At age 20, I cut my self at work, and still have the keloid scar on my finger. Last week in the garden I cut that same scar. Just over thinking, I added 20 to my current age of almost 57, for a sum of 77. I'm over the hill now, and going in reverse, but I sure hope I make it past my moms age of 77. She was already diabetic at my age, for 5 years.
 
Sorry for your loss Ben. It's never easy. I lost both my parents as a young adult...it sucks. There's a lot of crap indeed after someone dies...just make sure you take time to be good to yourself.
 

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