It very much depends on your dishwasher and more importantly, on the type of detergent you use in it.
If your dishwasher doesn't have a fine mesh filtre e.g. the self-cleaning filtres on the Bosch/Siemens dishwashers, you will find that the high pressure water will have tiny bits of ground up food on them which will act like mild sand-blasting and can damage some enamels and glassware.
I would suspect that older US dishwashers with grinders rather than filters may suffer from this problem.
If you use a harsh detergent, particularly cheap old formulas that contain chlorine bleach you will definitely fade patterns.
If you use excessively harsh detergents, you will also cause scratches on dishes / etch the patterns. There's a happy medium to be struck between good cleaning power and bleached out dishes.
In general, if you're using a high-end detergent and a good dishwasher you shouldn't have many of the problems described in that article.
Dishwashers cannot be used to wash wood, that's the case regardless of what make / detergent you're using. The wood cooks and splits or becomes extremely dry and breaks.
I have never had any problem with plastic handled knives with pots or cookware in my dishwasher.
We have a European Bosch Excell machine and it's never really caused any problems with any of these items.
We had a Siemens dishwasher before that which also worked flawlessly with those kinds of items without any problem.
I try out various dishwasher detergents and here's what I've found :
Unilver:
Sun All in One Max Power - Very powerful, but seems to damage some of my cups. I've never had poor results with less powerful detergents, so I don't see the point.
Sun All in One Green Power - Excellent product. Does the job and it's environmentally friendly.
Recket and Benckiser:
Finish Quantum - Excellent results and very shiny dishes.
Finish Max in One - Also produces excellent results and very shiny dishes and it's significantly cheaper than Finish Quantum and regularly on special.
Proctor and Gamble
Fairy Dishwasher tablets - Very good - although a bit foamy.
Fairy Platinum tablets - Excellent product, does a very good job and produces very shiny dishes.
Ecover :
Ecover Dishwasher tablets - surprisingly, these are actually fantastically good tablets. They remove all traces of dirt and leave the dishes nice and shiny and they smell nice too. They're entirely environmentally friendly and manufactured through a sustainable process. I got a big value box of them recently and I'm finding them my tablet of choice.
Tesco Ownbrand:
Main tesco brand - excellent
Tesco Value - haven't tried.
Tesco Naturally (Eco) absolutely lousy - these caused the dishwasher to over foam and I would never buy them again.
Dunnes (Ireland's largest supermarket chain)
"Dunnes Dishwashing Tablets" - excellent value and produced as good a result as Finish!
Rinse aids :
Finish - excellent
Sun - Excellent
Ecover - Pretty good, not as good as the two above, I have to try their new one and see if it's better.
Tesco Own brand - Not great - very foamy.
We're not in a hardwater area, but we always use salt in the dishwasher and let it filter its own water.
I cannot understand how the 3-in-1 products with built-in "salt action" (read: phosphates or other softening ingredients) can possibly work as the water used in the hot rinse cycles would be hard and would potentially coat your dishes in limescale or damage your dishwasher in the long run.
My attitude is that the water softener in the machine is there for a reason, so use it!
