Where are the nice men at in this area?

[speed_queen75]

I really appreciate

All the great advice and, opinions, however most of them that make the issue out to be mine and mine alone usually either have a partner or are in the process of settling down, my granny always said, "A rich man can never feel the needs of a poor man" likewise, someone who is in a relationship and is happy cannot comprehend the ones that are not, and the emotional "roller coaster" you go through.
I am a very happy person, if you ever met me in person you would see for your self, all my girlfriends can't understand why i am single will all my great qualities i have, and things i have to offer, granted i know i live in a shithole, but financially i cant just "up and move", just so i cam meet some one, i would love to share my happy and bubbly personality with a guy and i know in time it will all happen, i would just hate to think i was not chosen to be blessed with enjoying a partner at a young age like some of my friends have been, and still waiting around in my 40's for it to come along.
I will have to disagree with some saying " only you can make it happen" well give me a 45mm Beretta and i will LOL, that was a joke y'll.....

 

[speed_queen75]

Ok since we ae now posting pics

here is one of me. LOL

 

[oldhouseman]

No, sdlee

not looking here. Happy where I am. Just encouraging you to post a pic if you wanted. I have my partner, my dogs, home and gardens, hobbies and a person with whom I share a special bond of close friendship. Life is good.

 

[rp2813]

Allen, great post on love & sex. It's excellent when the two combine for a torrid physical episode but even between partnered men you don't get that combination much of the time--at least not after 23 years together. Sometimes sex is just having fun or helping one or the other or both to fall asleep a little easier. I think it's way more of a female thing to always require emotional presence during sex.

Much as I'd like to emulate Robert and show interest in random attractive men out & about, I have to be fairly sure they're approachable before I would. It's not that difficult to assess. If they're looking back, they're usually doing it for a reason.

At work several months ago a guy caught my eye in the cafeteria, and apparently vice versa. We exchanged hellos for a while, then small talk as we'd pass each other, then one day he waited for me outside after lunch, we talked, I fed him the right lines and he shot right back with all the right replies and we were instant gay buddies making lunch dates.

Then I got laid off. But we still stay in touch and he, my partner and I have met for lunch since. He's single but I'm not. If I were, things may have gone a lot further with us and rather quickly, as we share some key mutual interests. This guy is 35 and I'm 53. There's no reason men over 40 or 50 should think other men--and younger ones at that--aren't interested in them. And to bring things full circle re: sex and/or love, this guy is a candidate for a sleep-over that's all about fun for me him AND my partner. Keeping things interesting and changing it up once in a while is what keeps our physical relationship active, and it has everything to do with acknowledging and embracing the male instinct instead of suppressing it. This is where gay male relationships differ from straight ones. There are a lot of frustrated and bored married "straight" men out there suppressing their instinct at home. Just check craig's list if you think otherwise.

 

[appnut]

Omaha 2005

 

[foraloysius]

8-23-2008

 

[appnut]

Luigi, you get better looking as the years go by that's for sure!!!

 

[dynaflow]

Found mine

Guys,
met my hubby on silverdaddies almost a yr and a half ago.
we couldnt be happier, even though it is a long distance relationship, going to Myrtle beach next month for his 50th. When i met him wasnt looking at all, but low and behold it happened. Wonderful kind caring man 1/2 mexican 1/2 italian sexy good looking and understands my old applainces and vacuums never complains

 

[jamman_98]

Nice guy here

Single (7 years now)
46
Bear (Southern Gentleman)
5'9"
175
Yes there are nice guys out there but we tend to finish last.
Murphy's Law "The person you are attracted to is always on the opposite side of the country from you"
Joe
jamman_98

 

[vacuumfreeeke]

You know I'm not even sure I want to find a husband anymore! When I was younger I thought that finding a husband would be my "reward" for all the shit I've been through for being gay. Now I almost like being alone. At times other people *really* annoy me and I do not want to invest the energy it takes to do the "get to know you" process all over again. Sometimes I think if I just have my cat and my vacuums, and some friends I'll be fine. I can masturbate for sex, then I can do it right and be selfish and just go to sleep afterwards!

 

[toploader55]

Well Guys,

One time when I was in a (what I thought) was going to be a forever and ever, it ended. I went to work the next day and this Fabulous Older Woman said to me : "Eddie what's wrong ? You don't look happy like you always are. " So I told her I was seeing someone and it ended. She said : "I've been married to Jim for 51 years. And let me tell you...Sometimes it better to be alone than wish you were alone." End of story.

 

[whitekingd]

Yeah, but if you have always been alone, it would be nice to have someone to come home to. "You'd be sooooo, nice, to come home to. You'd be soooo, nice, by the fire." I am heavy set, and not a catch by any means by our gay community. I have been out, lots!!! I guess I can come to terms with being fat, but attractive, but also being alone. At least I have my PUSSY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (she's seventeen now)

 

[kenmorekid]

Pics

Well I thought I would post a pic of me as well. Here ya go...Its me and my nephew coloring easter eggs at my moms ) It took me a while to find a decent guy. We have been together for a little over 2 years now and it seems that when you find someone, a few months into the relationship you find others so its eather none or many...Although most are just up for one thing...Mike doesnt play that game...

 

[rp2813]

It all depends on what sector of the gay community you circulate in. Being on the hefty side doesn't mean you're not a catch in the eyes of every gay man. I prefer my men on the beefy (note that I did not say "muscley") side and I have plenty of company that shares my preference.

 

[autowasherfreak]

What the Heck

I will ad my pic to this post as well. Don't be scared. LOL.

 

[autowasherfreak]

Pics

I must say we have some very handsome men on here! Kenmorekid you have one beautiful smile!

 

[appnut]

Well Delmer, you got my curiousity definitely for sure!! I think a picture is in order.

 

[kenmorekid]

Smile )

THANKS auto. I tend to get that a lot. I guess I have my dentist to thank for that!!

 

[irishwashguy]

Northwest dating

Well, it is a matter of perception. It is true that people in this part of the country are more passive agressive,, that makes it more tough to muddle through the crap, I like the dirrect aproach. The last time that I fell in love, it was totally unexpected, and a total suprise. Boy was I not expecting it. He was a Floridan that was from upstate New York. I Love the accent, so sexy! . I would say not to give up..There are so many neat guys that I have met in Seattle, especially West Seattle, Woof! Woof! As I am finishing what I am doing, a Mr Right will find me, like he will find you.

 

[super32]

Ok, so i have been on both sides of the fence. I was in 2 LTR's. 9yrs the first time and 8yrs the second time. There was no downtime between the 2. This is the first time in my life i have lived alone. In the begining it was bitter/sweet. For 17 yrs i always had some one to come home to. Now i come home to an empty house. I have learned that being alone is not all bad. I have a decent job, a few friends, and living in the chicagoland area there is always something to do. I realized i can take care of myself. I do date people, but have not found anyone worth calling "the 1". Most men are only interested in sex. Then they are on to their next conquest. Most of them run from me when i tell them not to even think they are going to get in my pants. I still talk to my last partner. We are still good friends, some people still think we will wind up back together but we dont think so. Unfortunatly most people will have to kiss alot of frogs before they get a prince.

Anyways here is another pix of me. I just recently took a few new pix. I figure i need to make myself visable if im going to meet anyone.