I lived in a 80 sq mt apt with 4 people, with a mother during last years of her life often too tired and taken down by her illness(dilatative cardio-miopathy), and know it's not easy, but not to be a bitch, but that's not simply messy house....that's a pigsty.
I found myself at 14 years old taking care of my family, father and sister which she never touched a pan, a dishwasher or something before.....nor my father...
Let's say I was prone to house-care jobs as I loved it since I was little and did that since I was little, but think if I were not I couldn't anyway reach such a level of mess nor could my sis if she was alone....not saying am any better than him, I think I should know his background and life to really have an opinion about his person etc....
Looks like he lives with a "special" person.....also, brother? Son? It must not be easy...but not an excuse not to do a load in the Kenmore with some pans located kinda everywhere before the computer, put away the 4 or 5 soda bottle and various junks scattered around, give a clean to the tacky fryer on the stove....and gosh, that cabinet, is that a mayonnaise jar laying among only lord knows what?
Everyone's a cross to bear, everyone lacks in something, nobody's perfect, yes right, not for this a critic should not be taken as a chance to better something, a push to move on whatever your issue is, or also something to laugh about, he does that by referring to his "domestic" kitchen, like something to be proud of..well it hardly seems a kitchen to me, .that looks unhealty for his sake,well not sure like the ones you see on "How clean is your house" tv show....those people got real serious problems and need immediate help, but still an enviroiment you could do really something about to improve your life...not what social service could define healthy anyway, I think.
I could not really live like that and cannot figure how he can.....i would freak out in zero time., and cannot help to say that... Strange me or strange him? Let's speak objectively... Unusual without doubts, let's face it.
Not to judge furterly, he could do whatever he wants, even sleeping in the bathtub sorrounded by piles of dirty socks or brushing his teeth in the toilet...but really, let's be honest, you cannot shoot a video in an house like that and expect the average person used to "western" world cleaning standards would not comment or say really anything about. Well, if not adjectives like "nasty"... At least unusually exceptionally messy? Well it is...you can't really deny it is.
Then you could have all the exaplanations possible, like: "I work 10 hours a day and have 3 childrens and a special brother to take care of"... That would be kinda one, but just don't get pissed if someone comments at firstm is an objective comment that comes spontaneously, not out of evilness but simply objective.
I wonder if
Instead spending time taking the cam making videos he could shoot another day, why don't do a nice cleaning around? Would not it best objectively speaking of hygiene and average prioriities? Considerations....
Then as said he can do what he wants.......his life....His house..
Not all critics comes to harm though.....
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