all is not well

[hairybigmanku]

Hi guys logged in as hairybigmanku i was hairybigmanuk. My partner Terry is not a well man right now, I have been with him this evening and after our evening meal. I turned around on the couch to look at him, he fell sound a sleep I am now looking in the cold light of day at an typical ageing white bearded polar bear. I am loosing this guy to the raveges of ill health and father time,I got off the couch to put the dirty dishes in the sink and walked over to Terry and put my arms around him to hug him. Man oh man did that guy cry he is scared of leaving I fear now its a matter of time before the good lord takes him.

Oh yeah at 43 years old I have now been diagnosed with a very painfull condition called rhumatoid arthritis its in my hands fingers and wrists, I am not a happy bear guys I have to keep going for his sake and my sake hope all is well with every one

 

[davy1063]

hey bud, we will keep both of you in our prayers.

 

[rchris]

Keep your chin up. And keep hugging Terry.

 

[appnut]

I'm with you Kevin. Bob

 

[toggleswitch]

Religious- do not read if sensitive.

Man oh man did that guy cry he is scared of leaving I fear now its a matter of time before the good lord takes him.

My teachings show death as perhaps better than life- there is only love there. May you both be here with us as long as possible in each-other's love; and may every moment be as joyous and painless as possible.

Blessing for those who have fallen asleep:

O God of all spirits and of every flesh, Who did trod down death and overcome the devil, bestowing life on this Your world, to the soul of this Your servant (Name), departed this life, do You Yourself, O Lord, give rest in a place of light, in a place of green pasture, in a place of refreshment, from where pain and sorrow and mourning have fled away. Every sin by him (her) committed in thought, word, or deed, do You as our Good and Loving God forgive; seeing that there is no man who shall live and sin not, for You alone are without sin. Your righteousness is an everlasting righteousness, and Your Law is truth; for You are the Resurrection, the Life, and the Repose of Your servant (Name), departed this life, O Christ our God; and to You do we send up glory, with Your Eternal Father and Your All-Holy, Good and Life-creating Spirit; both now and ever, and to the ages of ages. Amen.

 

[tomturbomatic]

Hairy and Terry, there is nothing to fear. Make sure that your physicians give you what you need for pain. There is no pain or punishment on the other side except the regret we feel for not being the best we could be and for having done wrong to others. Those who have mostly spread love will feel a lot better than those who have spread hate. I was blessed with a near-death experience. It was the most fabulous experience I have ever had. I have no fear of my transition or "promotion." There are many books about near-death experiences now, so do some reading of the reports from those who have been where you are enveloped in love and have the opportunity to communicate face to face with The Supreme Being. If you need titles, let me know. And, don't fear that you will have to lose communication when one of you is there and one of you is still here. Fear Not! Best wishes, Tom

 

[toggleswitch]

there is nothing to fear.

O Lord, give rest in a place of light, in a place of green pasture, in a place of refreshment, from where pain and sorrow and mourning have fled away.

Thanks Tom, that is what I was trying to say in my pontificational logorrhea.

 

[westyslantfront]

i will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers....ross

 

[hairybigmanku]

HUGSZ GUYS THANKS TO ALL IT GREAT TO KNOW SOMEONE OUT THERE CARES

 

[davy1063]

Steve, that prayer that you offered was amazing. Is it Eastern Orthodox (Greek, Russian, etc.)?

 

[toggleswitch]

yes Eastern Orthodox taken from the Greek.

In English it's a bit hokey. In Greek. OMG I melt.

 

[rayjay]

Prayer

Steve, What a prayer. How beautiful and touching. I had tears in my eyes.

Ray

 

[bobbyderegis]

Another prayer goes up today from Boston.
Bobby in Boston

 

[hairybigmanku]

appnut get in touch please your mail addy is failing

 

[Bearpeter]

from two bears to you...

What can I say, but as a couple, I wish you both strength.
I can only imagine how I would feel in your situation and hope you both find the strength to pull through your difficulties.
God bless,

Peter and Rod xx

 

[JerseyMike]

So ver y sorry, hairybigmanku

My thoughts and prayers are with you both.

Mike

 

[bajaespuma]

Amen

As are mine. Peace and grace to you both.

 

[appnut]

Kevin, I emailed you late Sunday night from Tucson.

 

[SactoTeddyBear]

Re: Kevin and Terry:

My Prayers and Thoughts are with both of you as well. Keep on Hugging and certainly Loving Terry and know that you are both so special to each other as well as with all of us too.

We all are as supportive as we are able to be, as far as we live from each other, but your both not that far, when we can write to each other either through the Club Site or E-Mailing.

Know that your both Loved and surrounded my Friends, even if we aren't right there with you in person.

Peace, Love of Friendship and Hugs, Steve
SactoTeddyBear...