I never used any of that junk on my hair, except a couple times the barber put Butch Wax on it when I had a flat top in 6th grade. My home room teacher had one, and I thought it looked good on him (he was a young guy in his mid 20's, and just about anything would have looked good on him). From the time I was about 4 I had a "burr" haircut, until the flat top. By late 7th grade my hair was longer, and has been ever since - I don't like my ears to show.
Pictures of my dad made in the late 1940's indicate he must have used Vitalix or something, but by the time I was born he had short "burr" cut hair, and did until the end.