After some experimentation I found I much prefer using oats as a savory side dish with entrees etc. Lightly toast the oats in a frying pan with some olive oil. Add equal volume of broth, some salt to taste, simmer till tender. Oats go great with curry, lamb, chicken, pork, veggies, almonds, whatever. They are simply another grain and do not need to be relegated to the sickly sweet side of the table forever.
Although I have a sweet tooth, I really disliked the overly sweet bowl of slimy oatmeal with milk and raisins that was standard childhood fare. My new taste for savory oats works well with a current effort to eliminate sugar and processed carbs from my diet (pasta still in though). Plus oats have "good" fiber.