John,
We have nine dishwashers we rotate through regularly - beginning with a KA15, lower rack cleaning is out of this world, top half rack is, well - I can load the lower rack such that the top rack comes clean but nobody else has ever figured out how to do it.
Going on to several variations on the Potscrubber I and III (no use here for the Potscrubber II trash), ending with a Triton XL (the one which gummed up when the phosphates came out of the detergents and cleaned great, if you had four hours time).
A sprinkling of countertop commercial (washes at 75ºC) and two Maytag RR, one the portable without the rinse-aid.
One GSD 1200 or Twenty-Eight Hundred works just fine for such a large party when I'm in charge of the clean-up and none, absolutely <span style="text-decoration: underline; font-size: 24pt; color: #cc99ff;">NONE</span><span style="font-size: 24pt; color: #cc99ff;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> of the guests are permitted to 'help' out in the kitchen, especially with clean-up. I don't pre-rinse ever, if it's smaller than a VW Van, it goes into the dishwasher. First two or three loads are from the prep - pots and pans and bowls and beaters and food processor parts, cutting boards (yes, gasp wood, too) and everything but high-carbon steel cutlery.</span></span>
<span style="font-size: 24pt; color: #cc99ff;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Then come the quick rinses for the special serving plates or lead-crystal or whatever we (usually me) have forgotten to get out the day before. This could easily mean just a top rack (gasp! The horrors of it all - I'm destroying the environment single-handedly!!!)</span></span>
While my far more social mate entertains (and the late guests arrive), I've got the first round of appetizer/snacks/ Amuse Bouche running. I should add that, were I entertaining, it would all be Correlle and stainless-steel with Libby glass. Not the case - we'll be using 1920's china, silver, lead-crystal, cheap but cheerful 1950's Mexican pottery, etc. - in short, nothing which can be thrown in to be washed with other stuff together, some of which only getting hot rinses without detergent, etc.
Finally the main course table service, the coffee/desert/snackes, etc. and then, at the end, the pots and pans and serving bowls/platters which held the left-overs which went into ziplock bags (I put my foot down on my Pyrex when I realized it never came back).
So, yeah - often two dishwashers running at the same time, one a commercial. But - I refuse to wake up to a dirty kitchen, I can't stand it when other people put things away and I can't find them and, worst of all, it drives me crazy when some helpful queen scrubs a vintage 1940's cast aluminium pressure cooker with a GREEN Scotch-Brite pad or puts the silver cutlery in with the stainless steel and pours chlorine-bleach over them.
We all have different ways of doing things, I find it challenging enough to cook around the genuine soy/gluten/'real' vegetarian/real diabetes problems, much less the 'food allergy of the week' hysteria of the fading, jaded queens. I refuse to be up until three in the morning cleaning and scrubbing when there's machines which can do it better than I.
Seriously, how do you ladies entertain twice or more a month, 12 people at a time or so? Serious question. And no, if you're not the one cleaning the dining room/kitchen, your opinion doesn't count.
[this post was last edited: 9/22/2017-08:56]