When you live byond the range of boring normal,
the average shmoe cannot relate to you. The average being that guy or gal that lives in Walmart and eats, drinks, drives dresses, watches and listens according to what the rest of the herd is doing at the moment. When you do something that places you outside their comfort zone, the reaction is that you're somehow stupid, crazy or gay, which covers both. Perhaps part of the gay question comes from the foolish belief that magical good taste and fashion sense comes with gayness like a secret handshake and decoder ring. Beats me.
I get all sorts of static from people for not following fashion or trend and generally being strange in their view. I'm into vintage. Vintage appliances, motorcycles, architecture, automobiles, music, movies, etc. I shave with a 50 year old Gillette TTO. I have cats. I hate sports and sports bars and 99% of what's on the tube. I'm sitting here typing with a mug of stout, and my .45 Sig Sauer, listening to Johnny Mercer on XM. I may be different, even weird, but I'm straight as a grizzly bear's gadoots and I've had idiots ask me the same thing before. Dude are you gay? It always catches me off guard......then I tell them "choose your next words very carefully".
Gets my blood up just thinking about it!
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