I See This....
....All the time in the part of my life that deals with special-needs people. I am not talking about the special-needs people themselves; they have challenges that sometimes prevent them from managing independently.
I'm talking about some of the young people hired as their "staff." Many of them are appallingly close to feral! They cannot do the simplest household tasks or repairs, they have no idea how to cook, they don't see the most obvious dirt or disrepair and they have not a clue why they should be concerned.
Their lives revolve around visits to fast-food joints to get food, calls and texts on their fancy smartphones and payments on their new SUVs. Much of their time is spent complaining about how inadequate their paychecks are when compared to their wants, and they are frequently in turmoil over some utility getting shut off or a threatened repossession of their vehicle, even though they see nothing unreasonable about spending seven or eight bucks a day for their fast-food lunches, more for their fast-food dinners, and way more for their Friday nights at the bar & grill.
In Winter, they run around in thin "hoodies" in 10-below weather - no gloves, no hat. Don't you dare ask them to shovel snow - they say it's too cold (big surprise, given the way they're dressed) and when they do deign to do a little, they're back indoors in two minutes, with the job unfinished.
I do not understand them at all. I make what they do and I have a nicely furnished house, a car that's paid for - if not new - and money in the bank. No one ever calls me about a cutoff or a repossession.
When did not knowing how to take care of yourself become "normal?"