It is entirely possible to be both hygienic and conservative washing dishes by hand.
First of all, use good rubber gloves. This way I can use fully hot tap water at 125 F without burning my hands. This is the same temp that my DW would be using.
Secondly, I fill the wash sink with probably 3 gals of hot water with the dish soap, put the silverware on the bottom of the sink, stack the plates on top, and then the glasses and cups. I wash the glasses first, then the plates, next the silverware, placing all the washed items in the other side of the sink. Then I wash the pots, pans, serving bowls,ect. and place them on top of the rest of the already washed dishes.
Then, turn on the hot water in a slow stream and begin rinsing. This way the rinse water is pouring over all the already washed dishes in the sink, rinsing them too. As I rinse each piece I place it in the dish drainer. I doubt that I use any more that 2 gals of hot water to rinse this way, if that much. I am always very cognizant of how much hot water I’m using, we are all electric and I know very well how expensive it is to run the hot water. I would never leave the hot water running full force the entire time I’m washing and rinsing.
I next drain the wash water, clean out both sinks and wipe down the sink and faucet to prevent water spots. By the time I finish this the dishes are for the most part already dry from the heat of the hot rinse water. So I only have to do a light drying with a clean dish towel.
This whole process takes maybe 10 mins on a regular day for the dinner dishes, and this includes putting away the leftovers.
What I find so interesting about the exchanges on this thread is that some people are so concerned about the conservation of water and energy and maintain that using a dishwasher uses less of both. This only true though if you use one of the newer DW’s, the old DW’s use way more water and energy, and they do a much better job cleaning too.
Yet on many of the threads about HE automatic washing machines many members loudly decry the lack of abundant hot water in modern HE TL’s. So, in the end its really all about what you personally find important and how you want to do your own laundry and dishes.
I knew when I posted that I surprisingly found that I enjoy the process of hand washing dishes I was going to crack hell wide open here, LOL. But I also like to do laundry with a wringer washer too. I would do this too, but our home just doesn’t have the proper set up to do this. The kitchen is a small, efficiency condo kitchen, no room for a wringer there. The dedicated laundry area is a closed with bifold doors, no place for a tub for rinsing. And the bathroom with the tub is configured in such a way that I can’t use a wringer at the bathtub either. Believe me, I have given this some thought.
Eddie