Living well is the BEST revenge..........
Thanks for that, Rick!
Probably the worst thing one can do is to alter religion/spirituality to suit the culture and attitudes of the times.
My concept of religion/sprirituality is that one must raise themselves to a higher level/vibration, not change the rules of the "game" to suit themselves.
Marriage is indeed a secular/civil/social custom and was not addressed as a sacrament by Christinity until later in time(centuries, IIRC). It then made its way into that faith "by popular demand".
In the spritual world marriage is the fusion of two dislike adn cometitive energies(like yin and yang)to create a whole being.
Astrologically this is represented by Virgo (female energy) and Scorpio (male energy) fused together by Libra (marriage/balance). Theoretically, then, it is better to take on the opposite gender's energy in onself to be a complete being rather than look for it in others (and therefore by marriage).
Homosexuals, for the most part, can be seen as already having within them/(us) the opposite gender's essence. If this is the case does that make us more spritually advanced? Who knows.
But hear this same-sex marriage will eventually happen; as legally, there is no other alternative. So why not just deal with it now instead of spending millons of dollars to fight what can only be seen as the denial of rights to a large group of people.
If the rules of the game extended equallty to gays, they/we might just end up resembling their/our straight counterparts more closely in all sorts of behaviors.
Remember, every aspect of society and every social and actual istitution FOSTERS M-F couples, and presents huge obstacles to M-M and F-F couples.
Bottom line: What you f--- does not make you superior to me based upon what I f---. They are all pink on the inside and stink really bad.
Gays as a group may never fully see 100% equality or get the love/support/repect/cooperation of others. All we can do this instant is TRULY love ourselves and each-other. God doesn't make junk or garbage. (China nad other manufacturing countries, on the other hand............)
http://christiangays.com/marriage/rite.shtml