Me too, little-edie
I quit 10 years ago - and it was the hardest thing I ever did. Here's a quote from an email I sent a friend when she was looking for advice/support. She had just gotten through her first day without smoking.
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That's how it's done - one day at a time. I'm going on 10 years, and I can tell you - the first couple of weeks are terrible. It will seem like it will never get better, your thoughts will cloud up, and you will be groggy and impatient with the world - it's just your body detoxing. Don't panic! Go take a nap or go for a walk (if you can) when you are feeling weakest - then pat yourself on the back for being strong.
Oh, and your metabolism will change - you may gain some weight at first, but if you aren't replacing cigs with food, it's just water weight and you will lose it again when you are finished detoxing (2 to 3 weeks - everyone is different).
And then you have to come up with the smoker's dillemma - WHAT DO I DO WITH MY HANDS? I used to smoke 2 packs a day (for 10 years) - that was a tough hurdle for me to overcome. Let me know what you need for support - I'm here for you!...
Oh - you may have to avoid smokers for a day or two until you are stronger - if they're smoking.
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Hope this helps! I quit cold turkey, but there are the patches, there's the gum (which tastes AWFUL), and there is Wellbutrin (sp). Yes, I know it's a prescription drug, but if the alternative is smoking, you're better off with the prescription. I don't recommend cold turkey. Very few people can do it sucessfully. I had never tried to quit before, so when I did I got mad when I realized how addicted I was, and that steeled my resolve to quit.
I still dream that I'm a smoker sometimes, and I wake up feeling guilty. It's a tough thing to quit - tougher than coccaine or heroin addiction, they say.
Good luck, and if anybody needs support to help them quit - let me know!
-Sherri