Fabric softeners in general are bad for my skin nowadays, in spite of years of using them religiously. Now that I've kicked that habit it turns out I don't really miss them - our clothes are still quite soft and towels are really more absorbent than before.
One thing in particular that still irks me -- I used SA8 for literally a decade++ for its great performance and without any issues, through the loss of phosphates and several formula tweaks. Yet, right after they got a 99 (!) on the (sometimes admittedly questionable) Consumer Reports detergent survey they decided the change the formula yet again after several years of stability and, sure enough, me and the boys started getting rashes. Had to stop using it and, after trying several options, settled on Persil Megaperls which gets almost everything out and hasn't broken anyone out yet in spite of being German industrial strength.