Homeownership is expensive but, personally and I know I'm in a different country but my experience of renting in Ireland was pretty annoying, you were always at the whim of a landlord or a property management company when it came to any issue and you don't have the freedom to do whatever you like to the building. I just far prefer owning my own place.
There are always bumps and unexpected expenses, so you budget for them in your financial planning.
It means putting a few €, or in your case $ aside every month in a rainy day fund, specifically for house maintenance and ensuring that you're well insured and shopping around constantly for the best deals on that everytime renewals come up.
There's always a risk of some major maintenance issue that's not insurable - the big ones for me have been central heating breakdowns, involving boiler replacement and also things like resurfacing hardwood floors.
You can also do a lot of maintenance, at least the bits that don't require scaffolding or specialist skills yourself.
My main tip is that you should formally budget. Get an actual spreadsheet and start working out your expense. See what you can reduce. Often the are loads of things you can change around without actually reducing the quality off those things - pick better options for your utilities : gas, electricity, internet, phone, TV etc. I started using online brokers to get better deals on energy and it really saves a lot and I'm now using only renewable kWhs for power. Be very agressive with shopping around for things like Insurance policies and workout exactly what you are covering and why. That's very important with things like mortgage and life insurance. Often there are better deals. Likewise check health insurance and use brokers for all of that as they can genuinely be very useful at getting the best deals.
Other than that just keep tabs on your expenses. It's important to know what you're spending so that you can optimise it. It's not necessarily about being frugal or Scrooge like, but about being smart and being able to see, understand and prioritise where money is going.
It's a pain in the rear to actually go through all that stuff but it really does help.
I used to be totally chaotic about how I organised my finances but I started just getting them into a system where I could analyse things and it made a huge difference. I've a lot more disposable income now because I've basically made everything more cost effective without reducing my lifestyle.
It's definitely nice to be able to just do whatever you want to with the décor, garden, exterior, change plumbing and electrical, minor construction and everything else.
Also it's an asset that you can live in.
There are always bumps and unexpected expenses, so you budget for them in your financial planning.
It means putting a few €, or in your case $ aside every month in a rainy day fund, specifically for house maintenance and ensuring that you're well insured and shopping around constantly for the best deals on that everytime renewals come up.
There's always a risk of some major maintenance issue that's not insurable - the big ones for me have been central heating breakdowns, involving boiler replacement and also things like resurfacing hardwood floors.
You can also do a lot of maintenance, at least the bits that don't require scaffolding or specialist skills yourself.
My main tip is that you should formally budget. Get an actual spreadsheet and start working out your expense. See what you can reduce. Often the are loads of things you can change around without actually reducing the quality off those things - pick better options for your utilities : gas, electricity, internet, phone, TV etc. I started using online brokers to get better deals on energy and it really saves a lot and I'm now using only renewable kWhs for power. Be very agressive with shopping around for things like Insurance policies and workout exactly what you are covering and why. That's very important with things like mortgage and life insurance. Often there are better deals. Likewise check health insurance and use brokers for all of that as they can genuinely be very useful at getting the best deals.
Other than that just keep tabs on your expenses. It's important to know what you're spending so that you can optimise it. It's not necessarily about being frugal or Scrooge like, but about being smart and being able to see, understand and prioritise where money is going.
It's a pain in the rear to actually go through all that stuff but it really does help.
I used to be totally chaotic about how I organised my finances but I started just getting them into a system where I could analyse things and it made a huge difference. I've a lot more disposable income now because I've basically made everything more cost effective without reducing my lifestyle.
It's definitely nice to be able to just do whatever you want to with the décor, garden, exterior, change plumbing and electrical, minor construction and everything else.
Also it's an asset that you can live in.