I have two dogs, my "daughters" Dolby and Miele. And yes, they are part of my family and like any other families my "daughters" go with me to Walmart, Home Depot, Lowe's, Ikea, Sears, Target or any other store.
I totally agree the store must have the right to not accept dogs that are not service dogs, but also, I have the right to spend MY money in other place. If MY family is not welcome, I'll spend my money somewhere else. Simple as that. (and of course I'll write a super long negative review explaining why I'll never, ever, put my feet in a specific store so many other dog daddies will know in advance so they can spend their money somewhere else).
The only place I thought for a second I'd have a headache was at Ikea. Once an employee asked me if Dolby was a service dog. I said no, she's my emotional support dog and she's the boss choosing the furniture she'll spend most of her time sleeping, is there any problem?" (imagine that scene with lasers coming out of my eyes and fire coming out of my ears.) The employee immediatelly said "oh, no problem at all, I'm sorry She's so cute and friendly, what's her name?"
Everywhere they go, Dolby and Miele make friends. At Home Depot near home there's also a GIANT sign next to the door "Bring your pets, they're welcome here."
I am extremely allergic to cats and I really mean it. But as soon as I don't play with the cat, hug it, sniff it, absolutely nothing will happen. If I go to a store and there's a cat there, i just use one nourone to think "well, I should NOT grab that cute cat otherwise it will trigger an allergic reaction." But I simply can not discriminate other people just because they have cats in their families. a cat passing next to me in the supermarket will do no harm at all as soon as I don't breath inches away from the cat. Of course the daddies must have common sense to NEVER let furry kids jump in the meat or fish freezer.
Here in Los Angeles, specially in West Hollywood and Beverly Hills area, it's more than normal to see restaurants that not only welcome pets, but the busser also brings water for the dog. There's one at Santa Monica Boulevard, right in the "gay mile" that I love called Fresh Corn Grill, owned and operated by a group of firefighters that even have a dog menu. The food is amazing, the prices are fair (nothing fancy) and the staff is friendly specially with my daughters (I have to go there again soon because I didn't go there after Miele enteres my life)
My dogs are clean. They sleep with me, eat next to me and sometimes even go to the bathtub with me. Why would I discriminate them and leave them home just because a place doesn't accept dogs? They're part of my family and I refer to them as "my daughters". If companies want my money, they will have to deal with the whole package that includes my dog.
About a month ago, i needed to buy an "el cheapo" vacuum cleaner and I ended up choosing a Bissell just because of the package that had a dog. (Bissell donates $10 on every product sold to support dog shelters).
Guess what, between two similar crappy models with exactly the same price, the dog was the tie breaker factor. Thanks to that dog I ended up discovering an EXCELLENT vacuum cleaner. two days later I bought a portable upholstery extraction cleaner also excellent but I ended up returning because I realized I needed something bigger. Bissell had my money on a almost $300 revolution pet pro deluxe, their TOL carpet extraction cleaner full of bells and whistles because thanks to that dog on the Zing box I discovered Bissell products are not horribly crappy as I thought. And that machine surprised me again. I guessed it was "somewhat good" because of over 1000 positive the reviews, but I'd never imagine it was much more powerful than commercial units.