toggleswitch2
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In today's world young perople are more open to both sides of the fence and more experimentation. Who says you have to choose?
I'd say even if you are caught in bed with someone of an unexpected gender say "it was my first time"!
I'm not saying it's right but so many bi-s get married, and do what they have to do on "boys' night out". Of course less tragic if wifey is bi or gay and knows hubby is too.
I say look at it this way- one or ten experiences does not a person make. I'd say do what you have to do quietly and no one needs to see a tattoo on your forehead. That does not mean don't be proud of who G-d made you, and don't not rejoice in the perfection of who you are right this minute. All I'm saying is silence is golden, sometimes.
Most important is practice safer sex, never ever let booze be an excuse to do risky things, treat yoruself and your body with dignity, and you are sleeping with EVERYONE your partners have. THINK AND BE CHOOSEY!
Never ever ever believe "I cant get "it" because I'm not gay-"- this is THE BIGGEST lie married closet gay/bi men tell themselves as they do the riskiest things imaginable.
LOVE YOUSRSELf AND RESPECT YOURSELF.
Enjoy your youth and take LOTS of pictures---when you get to be 40-ish *LOL* the trolldom comes upon you quickly!
One word of advice livign the gay life means not living the "straight and narrow: life you have MANY more options. Choose wisely and remember this awful saying:
"No one loves you when you are old and g(r)ay."Have fun now but know it all calms down and think of your future too! Don't "Marry" too soon or too late!
Too much said.
PEACE!
I'd say even if you are caught in bed with someone of an unexpected gender say "it was my first time"!
I'm not saying it's right but so many bi-s get married, and do what they have to do on "boys' night out". Of course less tragic if wifey is bi or gay and knows hubby is too.
I say look at it this way- one or ten experiences does not a person make. I'd say do what you have to do quietly and no one needs to see a tattoo on your forehead. That does not mean don't be proud of who G-d made you, and don't not rejoice in the perfection of who you are right this minute. All I'm saying is silence is golden, sometimes.
Most important is practice safer sex, never ever let booze be an excuse to do risky things, treat yoruself and your body with dignity, and you are sleeping with EVERYONE your partners have. THINK AND BE CHOOSEY!
Never ever ever believe "I cant get "it" because I'm not gay-"- this is THE BIGGEST lie married closet gay/bi men tell themselves as they do the riskiest things imaginable.
LOVE YOUSRSELf AND RESPECT YOURSELF.
Enjoy your youth and take LOTS of pictures---when you get to be 40-ish *LOL* the trolldom comes upon you quickly!
One word of advice livign the gay life means not living the "straight and narrow: life you have MANY more options. Choose wisely and remember this awful saying:
"No one loves you when you are old and g(r)ay."Have fun now but know it all calms down and think of your future too! Don't "Marry" too soon or too late!
Too much said.
PEACE!
