Refering to Thread #66283/ Post #888985/ Reply #8

[beekeyknee]

This post seems to elude to a sense of entitlement that some members seem to have on AW.org - A sense of entitlement that seems out of place here or portrays some as being self-important. I'll admit when the odd thread is started by someone that seems to be digging for information without really appearing to be commented to the long term mission of AW or being involved with us on an on going basis can usually be dismissed. But if someone has been a member for more than a year and seems to have a genuine interest in our goals or ideals here at AW, then it doesn't really seen like they should be brushed off as an insignificant or person of little or no importance. I realize we can't help the whole world, but when someone shows a true interest, those of us with the ability or time and has it in their heart should consider helping.

I think long time members know who these people are and should be recognized as such. A thread in Dirty Laundry exemplifies this point and contributing members can view it. That is all I will ever say on this topic.

 

[travis]

There do seem to be some more helpful members than others.  I have met a handful of members here and some are really great.  I do think we need to restrain ourselves when condemning the design or the function of another members newest acquisition.  That's really a low-class move.  On the other hand, if someone comes here for advice, be honest but not a jerk.

 

I am hopeful that I have made a mostly positive impression on everyone.  I realize that I have a mouth on me in dirty laundry.

 

[whirlykenmore78]

Travis, I couldn't agree more!

I would have loved to share the joy of getting a new SQ FL set, (which cost me a lot of money and I have dreamed of for years)without anyone making disparaging comments. Of course that did not happen.
Let me make this VERY CLEAR. IF YOU DON'T CARE FOR A MACHINE SOMEONE BOUGHT DON'T COMMENT!
Thank you
WK78

 

[rp2813]

Apparently I'm ahead of the curve

. . . because it seems the subject post does not display for me. 

 

[supersuds]

It's in Shoppers Square.

 

[vacerator]

Good that

that was made clear because I was going to reply last evening.
I almost said that my frivolous spending budget is only $60 every two weeks, so I'm not a paying member.
I worry about my own doorstep, not my neighbors, and am entitled to do so. If I want help, I ask for it.
If I can't make a nice comment about someone's machine, why say anything? However, noting a problem one may have experienced with the same machine may be helpful to them, no? Avoiding a certain operating, or installation condition might avoid the same problems for example.
Just be kind, and non condescending. As we age, we mellow out. High school students are more mellow with criticism than elementary students. By the time we are in our 50's, we've had enough hard knocks in life to know how we don't like to be treated our selves. At least I hope so.
We will all never agree. If someone acts rough around the edges with me, I have been known to show them their arrogance in a way which might help them smooth it out. Even I myself have had in the past not bitten my tongue when I maybe should have.

 

[chachp]

As we age, we mellow out.

 

<span style="font-family: courier new,courier;">...I think I fall into that category.  I have mellowed with age but honestly I've never really been one who hangs much on what others think of me.  I've seen members drop away because they didn't like the way someone talked to them.  That's really too bad.  Well I can promise that won't happen here.  I am more likely to tell them publicly what I think of their answer but I would always hope it doesn't come to that.  I'm not really known in my circle for mincing words.</span>

 

<span style="font-family: courier new,courier;">However, I try to live my life assuming that we get what we give.  I try to make my posts as respectful as I can and I expect the same in return.  I sometimes read some of these posts where folks are going back and forth and back and forth and how I really want to reply is "OK boys, let's just whip them out and see whose is bigger" because at the end of the day that's usually what it boils down to.<span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">  </span></span>

[this post was last edited: 7/12/2016-10:35]

 

[runematic]

I just went and read the "offending" post and in a way I can see his point, but on the other hand, this is absolutely one of the best sites for information & actual machine/parts sharing. I was a member of an antique stove forum (antique stove meaning 1700's to the 1920's cast iron). Barely anyone helped anyone else out. There were barely conversations at all. A few threads here or there. No banter like here. I quit the site. On this site there always is someone willing to help or offer an opinion. I may not always agree with it, but that's what makes this site great.

I sold my vintage washers & dryers a few years ago. I have no room here for them. I do have a bunch of early stoves (again, early, not the "modern" stove thought of here) in my "museum" collection. I don't sell them. It's kinda strange and rude to have someone here saying "that for sale?" "How 'bout that one?" When I go to someone else's collection that they spent time or money in collecting, I don't try to buy one their pieces. Now, if that person says, if you're interested in anything just let me know, then maybe I'll ask.

Half the fun of collecting is the hunt. I have stories with most of the stoves I have.

Anyway, sorry for the long post. This still is one of the best sites out there and it's the people here that make it so.

 

[goatfarmer]

I help where I can.....

 

[travis]

Todd, your post makes a whole lot of sense. I've explained to many people that I have three categories of possessions. There are things that I probably would not sell, things that I will sell for a fair dollar and things that I just don't care about. Many of those that have been around me long enough, realize that eventually some of the things that I swear I will never sell end up in the middle category.

The easiest way to get something out of me is to be polite to mention that you have interest in something that I have if I would want to sell. It's all about how you come at me.

There's another formum that I'm on the deals with monitor top refrigerators. I can break the membership down into three categories there. There's a small group of regulars that I know and are very helpful. There's a second group of interested new people that are seeking advice and listen to the more experienced. The third group is random new people that come in there thinking that we are just there to fulfill their parts request. This third group because of my blood pressure to rise daily because I just don't understand the stupidity.

 

[Ultramatic]

 

 

Unfortunately, in every group, there are always a few who feel they are above and beyond the rest. Pay them no mind. They're too busy walking around with a surgilator up their butt.

 

As many here have witnessed, I've been offered much guidance in many of my projects. For that, I am very grateful.

 

There are many helpful, generous individuals in AW. Don't let the selfish behavior of a tiny few let you think otherwise.

 

 

 

[ken]

Well at least Doug can say he received replies to his messages. After I determined the GE range I purchased last October was a 67 I searched here for any other posts concerning 67 GE range. I found another member who is on fairly regularly also had one. Their pictures showed the original owners manual with it.

I sent an email to ask if they would consider copying or scanning it for me. After 2-3 days without a reply I sent an IM. Never a reply to that either. I suppose there was the possibility they never received either message but I find that hard to believe. Not getting a reply was kind of off putting to say the least. I don't remember at this point if the 66 manual that's in Ephemera was available then. But at the same time I don't know how different, if at all, it might be from 67.

I found and joined AW because I have an interest in old appliances and machinery which Im sure can be said of an over whelming majority of the members here. If anyone contacts me I give them the courtesy of a reply regardless. Especially since its someone with a like interest. But that's just me.

I haven't had a whole lot of interaction with other members in the four years Ive been here but when I have I found them very friendly and helpful when possible. And I thank them for that. [this post was last edited: 7/12/2016-16:31]

 

[chachp]

I think Louie said it best..

 

There are many helpful, generous individuals in AW. Don't let the selfish behavior of a tiny few let you think otherwise.

 

<span style="font-family: courier new,courier;"><strong>I don't feel I have as much to offer as others and honestly sometimes when I THINK I know the answer I'm afraid to post for fear I may give bad advise.  Over the years and through the generosity of many here my confidence in my knowledge has increased because so many have helped me out.  Now I will post if I have actually done it before and have my own experiences.  I love that about this place.</strong></span>

 

[vacerator]

Yes, sure,

we can be eccentric at times, but mean no harm to anyone. I read a very nice apology here this morning to someone.