I picked up my CB today. There will be six of us around the table for dinner on Saturday.
This year I may try steaming it. I always have displacement issues when I add the cabbage to a big pot with a giant chunk of meat floating around in it.
The steaming recipe is from The Los Angeles Times, and calls for using the outer cabbage leaves to line the steamer insert, then placing the meat on top of them. Cooking time is around three hours. I'll use a big pasta pot, so lifting the meat out will be a cinch.
I also found a recipe for "Chicago style" CB, which is more along the lines of the OP. I'm going to do the cabbage as suggested in that one, which calls for 8 oz of Kerrygold Irish Butter melted, mixed with a splash of cider vinegar and drizzled over the cabbage before serving, then topping with crumbled bacon (six slices worth). Should make the cabbage a lot less boring than it usually is.
I've selected a couple of featured cocktails. I'm going to have my 40's vintage Waring Blendor out on the bar for whipping up batches of grasshoppers (a tradition my mom started with a friend down the street one blurry St. Patrick's day about 50 years ago), and the shaker will be out for mixing up key lime pie martinis, served in glasses rimmed with crushed graham crackers. Can't wait!