Cheryl,
I think you have made the right decision for now to accept the new panel if the washer otherwise is satisfactory. I'm glad that SQ has taken care of you, but be sure (and I know you've already done so) to document the who, what and where of your conversation with SQ.
I totally agree with you, that scratch was on the washer when it left the factory. Anyone reading your account should have been able to determine that. And even worse, the touchup job is so bad that you know whoever did this also knew they were shipping out a defective product.
As for this dealer, I wouldn't buy a box of Affresh tablets from him, never mind another new appliance. Maybe it was just the tech that couldn't or wouldn't do his job properly, but at anyrate, the owner was aware of your ongoing problems with the machine. He also knew you are a repeat customer that is also interested in future purchases. This should have prompted him or her to followup on you situation to make sure you were happy.
And as for the problems being of your making, I really don't see how this conclusion was made. You should be able to use a new washer for at the very least a few yrs. before you have any service needs. And as for any future service needs, it might be wise to ask SQ for a referral to another service provider, just in case.
Anyway, best of luck to you.
Eddie[this post was last edited: 5/26/2016-11:46]