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mickeyd

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On the weekend after the 4th of July, my beautiful mother, Geraldine Theresa, was in such a good mood that she almost went to the "washer store" with me--something she never does. The impeller for my Speed Queen had arrived--at 15 bucks, a real bargain. Later that afternoon, she had lunch at the Dock of the Bay with her friends, but on Sunday morning when two of my sister stopped to pick her up for church, she could not get out of bed, Laughing to me on the phone, she said "I think I had a stroke." My mother has always been like Lucille Ball, full of energy and mischief: she never stops. Marvelous cook, bakes everything from scratch--butter only, loved her unimatics, but unlike me she really dislikes sudssaver, always on the move and never home.

I was laughing too because my mother's only fault is hypochrondia, until my sister Peggy got on the phone to say that the left side of my mother's body was not working. Thus the joke ended with a three week stay in the hospital. When she got home, we took a virtual tour through hell. The urinary tract infection which she contracted on the hospital was killing her; the antibiotics had her stomach in agony; three sleepless nights had her nearly hallucinatory; she was actually aging before our very eyes, and we thought she was going to die. Then, miraculously, she turned the corner and started to get better. My brothers and sisters, all six of us, gave her constant care. A wild bunch, we came together instinctively without haggling. Not quite ready to bake, she's doing great. It will be Christmas time before the recovery is complete.

We are so glad and grateful and lucky to have our amazing mother back, and she never ever wants to be sick again.

So that's where I've been. No Internet at Mom's but a wonderful Kitchen Aid Washer--guess who was in charge of laundry?

I really missed the company of my washer buddies. A big hello to all of you.
 
Glad your mother pulled though and is improving Mike. We all only get one of those kind of best friends.
My mother has been gone for many years, yet she is still with me in many ways.
 
Oh my gracious I'm so sorry she's had to go through all this, but most importantly now is the happy news that she is doing so much better and on the road to recovery. I hope she will be turning out wonderful pastries and goodies again soon.
 
My dad suffered from several strokes back in December 2000. He was left brain damaged, however when I look back he has improved an awful lot from how he was when he first had his stroke. He now goes out to the shops, walks the dog 3 times a day and talks to all the neighbours, and can do most things a normal person can do. He suffers with speech still, and memory loss though with his memory it's more that he can't get information out of his memory into the real world - he's still with it inside. So it is very frustrating for him.

Anyway that aside, things WILL get better. Every day is an improvement, it doesn't seem it but when you look back in a few years time you'll think to yourself "gee, hasn't she improved a lot". A stroke doesn't affect the person inside, and whilst they may appear to be different they are still the same person. Treat her not like a patient, but still as your mother.

Hope this helps,

Jon
 
Thank You, Gentleman

for your kind words, and I am so sorry for YOUR losses.

When we were young, life was so predictable, so stable, so reassuring; now in middle age, it's just unbelievable how anything can happen at any time--right out of the blue. Shocking and Stunning.

Thank You, again

XXOO.

Mikey

Wordsworth has a great line: Turn
Wheresoever i may
By night or by day
the things which i have seen
I now can see no more !!!!!!!!!
 

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