Todd,
I never, ever said I wanted you to leave or even implied it. It is not my place and it is not my desire.
Look, we have had several months of intense debate and discussion. It's a safe bet that, except on the subject of guns (gun control to me means using both hands) we don't agree politically on just about anything.
I have never once said: "We won, you lost, better start looking for South American dictatorships to spend the next eight years." Nope, not once.
I admit, I take politics seriously. I am a strict constitutionalist, so, yes, I do get upset when the Constitution gets trampled on.
I did not, not even once, ever send anyone a private email filled with hate, spite or even one single threat or swear word.
I never, once, attacked anyone here, calling for them to leave. Yes, I do think any gay man who supports religious groups and political parties which call for them to be stripped of their civil rights and institutionalized is indulging in self-loathing behavior or sailing his barge down the river de-nial. Fine, so that makes me an impossible group member, one who must be attacked and torn to shreds?
No, it makes me a person who has a different perspective than many of the, I shall call them conservative, no doubt some will scream about that, gay men here who disagree with me.
So disagree.
This polarization is not good for our group. I contribute to Imperial when I know of something worth saying. I apologize when I have been rude, I try not to be rude again.
That said, no liberal here has sent conservatives hate-filled emails, threatened them and their families, called them Nazis...not saying you did any of this, I wouldn't believe it of you for a minute. But please remember, we on the left really got hit, and hit hard by the conservatives. It is not as if it was all us.
So where do we go from here? More attacks on us and me? More reading outraged emails and phone calls from people who want to stir dissension?
Or do we accept that we are in the middle of a culture war; your side had the upper hand for eight years, now we have the responsibility. You are quite right to wish Obama well. I never once went to bed the last eight years without praying, sincerely, genuinely praying for Bush's continued good health. Not out of affection for him, but because what would come after was far, far worse.
Let's drop all this, ok? I want you here. Except for the racist, I've never objected to anyone - it's not my right. Hell, if all the liberals here got up a petition to Robert to ask him to ban you, I would not sign it. I'd tear it up. Of course, it is not the liberals here who do that...
Can we just move on, please? You keep biting your cheek, I will keep trying not to say "We won, you lost, hah-hah-hah" like that annoying kid in the Simpsons.