To heck with it all!
I'll take my asbestos shielded behind many layers of lead-based paint! I think that's the 2 biggies out of the way.
Truth being that asbestos, while hazardous in a dust form, is a remarkable insulator and fire proofer. If it can be left alone, it's usually just fine. Of course, there's probably some nut out there who likes grinding asbestos with a belt sander and inhaling the dust... If you must disturb it, keep it wet so the dust is minimal and wear a mask! Respect asbestos!
Lead was used as a base in paint for many MANY years/decades/centuries because it was a very good base for paint. JUST DON'T EAT IT!!! LBP was outlawed in the US in 1978 and honestly, if you haven't painted since then you really ought to consider sprucing up your place a bit.
Maybe I'm wierd, but I love oil based paints. The clean up is not fun, but the paints tend to perform so well that it's worth the hassle. I hate putting things down on a surface that has been painted with latex based paint and having it stick, oil based paints don't do that! Sure, latex has its place(s) just not in my paint!
Smile, it's only toxic,
Dave