I had a close call a few years ago after being on another website. You know as well as I do that the "bear community" is a lot smaller than it looks, and they ALL talk! Lucky for me, that was a long time ago. I've gotten older and fatter and don't resemble any of those bootleg photos of me that are still running around out there. It taught me to be careful, but there's also something nice about meeting guys who aren't "published" at all. It makes for a nice surprise, considering when the "published" guys show pics of everything. I know it's just my opinion.