Shannon,
the front cabinet panels can be changed, or even painted. Painted wood kitchens are the latest trend. Sharkfin grey, white, pastels, even contrasting upper and base cabinet colors.
That honey oak front can even be restained darker. Just do a light sanding to remove anyclear laquer, and seal the new safe water base stain stain with water based polyeurethane. No hazardous off gassing around the babies! We have an 8 and 4 year old grand daughter and son.