I can relate
I had a special awards presentation copy,so got to watch this movie at home a few times. It did not make me cry,or even sad. Just angry. Reminded me of when I was 17 and had my very first gay relationship,which was a very painful,but wonderful experience.We even had a couple bloody fights outside, the 3rd year we were together. We stayed together almost 5 years. I recalled how we had to be SO secret,and always worried about being "clocked" It was such a strain on our relationship. We never talked about "gay",we just were just totally in love. As I watched the movie for the 2nd time,I recalled that the story took place in 1963,and that I met my first boyfriend in 1972. Then I thought....Oh yeah! That is only a difference of 9 years... No wonder I'm pissed off! I do hope that perhaps this wonderful story will help to pave the way for the coming generations of young gay people,so their first love experience will not be such a challenge to live.
Can honestly say,I do have the satisfaction of knowing that I was the "Jack Twist",and my boyfriend was the other guy. Don't think I could have handled watching if it were the other way around.