I didn't mean to come across as to say that all gay guys were perfect dressers etc. But all the gay guys I've known were like that. But I will say this, as far as my style and culture are concerned, they were cultivated into me by a well educated family that encouraged music, manners, education, poetry, public speaking, the list goes on. They just thought more of themselves than to be the slobs of the neighborhood. They didn't think they were any better than anyone else, they just had "culture" and wanted to pass it along to their children. I don't consider myself a "metrosexual', I don't even like that term because actually I'm what you would call a freakin redneck by my appearance but underneath all the grit and grime from working 7 days a week is a well-refined guy as my wife puts it. I just like to get dirty and have never visualized myself in any job unless it involved getting dirty for my money.