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Why not just spit on his grave and be done with him!!!!! To those of us who havent a clue as to what he did in the past,nor were told,this is getting to really show perhaps how some of the people here really are.Have a little respect perhaps not for him ,but for yourself.Enough at least till someone comes forward with the story. Thanks Bobby
 
I would have never in a million years would have guessed that he was using an alias. Hopefully he is getting some much needed help and lots of meds. One thing though that made me think...what if this guy goes really crazy and the ones that gave him phone numbers and addresses not knowing what this guy could do if he had a "moment"...I shudder to think that but I did. Sad so sad.
 
I read the link that Robert posted. Funny thing is that when I saw postings from that bozo I would skip it since I knew it would lead to and yes I will say it so crucify moi...DRAMA. Lots of it. I wasnt disappointed...glad I missed it!
 
"To those of us who havent a clue as to what he did in the past,nor were told,this is getting to really show perhaps how some of the people here really are."

I'm glad someone finally had the balls to say it.........
 
As Sandy pointed out

We were talking about that picture.

In a group the size of ours and with the enormous variations in cultures, nationalities, political orientations, religious beliefs and just plain the fact that we are predominately a group of gay men of a certain age, it's inevitable that some are going to take pleasure in attacking others.

Mommy Dearest must have had a royal, blue-rinsed queen on the set to give Faye tips on being regal.

Mike, I think part of the reason SecretSanta Lawrence has been mentioning "do not share your partner's contact info. with anyone" every five minutes has something to do with simple common sense. No, I'm not accusing Chad of anything. Frankly, he has always been pleasant and friendly towards me.

Given the hurt feelings, I guess this subject is too sensitive even for a discussion peripheral to the topic. I'm out of this thread. Sabrina, my sincere thanks for your patience and efforts to work with all of us.
 
Alistair,

Oh my GAWD,
You're so RIGHT. Sabrina is the other witch.

I humbly request your forgiveness on the grounds of long, faithful service and youth, coupled with inexperience.

I was also pre-first-cup-of-coffee.

Tee-Hee.

Hmm, I like it when you slap me, big boy. Makes my cheeks all red and rosy. Perks things all up.

I wasn't going to post any more on this thread, but an apology to Robert for mixing up witches is due and owing. I do apologize, Serena.

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Improper Diagnosis

I saw nothing in the behavior to suggest Asperger's. If I understand correctly telling the truth however unpleasant it may be, will be delivered bluntly if that is the case. There may be many valid reasons for the beginning and basis of this behavior, but time, adulthood and independance all provide impetus and opportunity for change. In none of my dealings or any I've read, have I seen his actions cause harm or loss, other than time. I would say generous to a fault and to his own detriment.
 
245am in the morn...cant sleep...why am i reading all these posts about some guy? i dont know. interesting in a way. are we all gay here and of a certain age? I didnt know that. you know, i never got to see this 'avatar' everyone was freaked out about...i feel cheated in life now, hahaha. someone show it to me, i know someone here must have saved it in a file somehow and can email it to me. This is an odd and fun group. ODD was listed before fun....but what the hell, we collect old appliances...uh....yeah...most people have treated me like a nut case for that in the past. lost a lot of machines over that. I'm not really reaching out by writing this, just cant sleep and thought i might as well make others laugh a bit...or want to shoot me. i've dealt with people from this site years back who were VERY narrow-minded so i stayed away for many years. too bad...could have saved a lot of machines from the scrap shredder..no joke! A lot of you are great people. some others scare the crap out of me. But i've had boyfriends like that so it doesnt bug me, hahahahaha. Happy Holidays to everyone. Hope to make some friends even if only online.
 
rII70sman Did we have the same Partner?

Rob, I read the posts regarding the issues with the former member sneaking back in and creating havok.

When I read your post, I SWEAR to you it is as though we were with the same person. My former partner did things that almost made me crazy (er, some might attest). It was truly like living with two completely different people. I have never heard anyone articulate the situation quite like you did. It completely resonated with me and made me start thinking about some of the things that my former partner used to do.

I was recently contacted by a local paper with regards to an article that they were writing on relationships. The reporter asked me the innane question:" What is something that you learned from your last relationship"? My answer was succinct:

" I can answer that easily....I learned that it was going to take a silver bullet or a woooden stake to get rid of him"!

The poor woman had expected something so different I am sure............
 
Thanks for posting the picture...I laughed me buns off. It looks like Phyllis Diller without a wig put a pair of those wacky glasses on. Ribbon spools for earrings...heehee...happy holidays! Anyway...I got a chuckle out of it today...thanks!
 
woooooooooooooooooow

I took a few days off because I had no time to sit in front of the computer and look what I've found.

As the owner of a Brazillian community at Orkut which structure is almost like AW.org and moderator in other 6 different communities, I must do nothing less than give Robert all my support.

Samantha, I know exactly how stressful and painful our "work" can be. Dealing with humans isn't easy, dealing with hundreds is even worst.

Nobody is perfect, even you and me aren't and nobody has the right to "judge" other people. We don't know exactly what happens inside Chad's head and as I can see, there are some people saying he's a nice guy but he has this "pathology".
Your attitude was very correct and professional. I didn't know if would do exactly the same if it happens in one of the communities I take care. Not being an apple polisher, I still have a lot to learn with you.

You let the message very clear, you always treated Chad with respect up to the last second, and at the same time you had to be "cold" enough to protect the community and the members. Only a very small group of people know how to keep this balance. You didn't take it personal as "i have to do that because it's Chad", but "unfortunately I have to do that to Chad as the last resource I have because his attitude can cause a huge disaster to the community and all the other actions didn't work" I know you thought zillions of times before hitting the ban button and I understand it was a difficult but necessary decision. Nobody likes to see a member going away.

automaticwasher.org isn't a tiny community like mine. It's a global reference! If we start checking our members, we'll find people from all continents and (seeking quickly) more than 20 countries. All this success didn't come overnight. I'm sure you had to spend a lot of time to create the website and you still spend monitoring everything and always surprising us with some enhances.

I don't know if you remember but our first contact years ago was about the great work you've been doing during these years. AW.org is fun, user friendly even for those who are not used to computers and internet, you and most of the members have a huge technical and historical knowledge and best of all, aw.org is reliable. We can really trust the informations here.

Thank you, Robert, for being so brilliant.
 

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