Priorities Will Have to Change:
Pat, I feel your pain. I'm surrounded with a lot of vintage stuff, and when I use other people's new stuff (or the few new things I own, like my cell phone), I'm struck by how cheap and nasty most things are nowadays.
For things to get any better, a lot of things are going to have to change. People are going to have to get used to the idea that there's only so much of everything to go around, and that things are going to have to cost more. As resources become scarcer, it will not be as easy to do things like remodeling, because costs will be so high. You'll have to do what people did sixty years ago - bite the bullet on cost and figure you're only going to get to do it once. The "vanity" remodelings of the past decade, where perfectly good kitchens were ripped out and redone simply because they weren't the personal vision of a new owner, will become a thing of the past.
People are going to have to get back to forming relationships with their stuff, having stuff repaired and taking care of it so it will last.
Companies and their stockholders will have to learn that not every year is a growth year - and they're going to have to learn that the growth figures they're accustomed to are no longer sustainable.
And people are going to have to learn to distinguish between what's good for them personally and what's good for the planet. Trust me, it's not always the same thing, no matter what advertising claims would have you believe. I have a friend with a Prius, and he's after me to get one; he goes on and on and on about how much "better" his car is for the environment than my Taurus is. What I cannot get him to understand is that my car is driven perhaps 25 miles per week, if that. Given that I am such a low-mileage driver, and given that building a new car takes more energy than the car will consume in its working life, my retention of the Taurus is actually better for the environment than selling it to another owner and adding another car to the road. But people don't think that way yet.
It'll happen. It has to. But it's going to mean a lot of changes, and a lot of people are going to have to be dragged into those changes kicking and screaming.