Tomturbomatic:
"I also remember when Eartha Kitt was at some ladies' function at the White House and made a comment about the war. Lady Bird took deep personal offense and EK had to go to Europe for years because she could not find work here. That's the steel magnolia in Lady Bird."
This is a story that has gotten to be something of an urban legend with a little truth mixed in. What actually happened is more interesting than the legend, I think:
The event was a 1968 women's luncheon at the White House. While the ostensible purpose of the event was to discuss the problems of inner-city youth, Kitt became very pointed, telling everyone loudly that the costs of Vietnam were detrimental to programs needed in America's inner cities, and speaking out against the war itself.
Kitt had a point, but her insistence on having her say in an inappropriate time and place was star hubris at its worst. For an invitee to the White House to use an event as a stage for protest is Simply. Not. Done.
Lady Bird was offended, according to those who were there, but kept her cool. What damaged Kitt were the responses of the Secret Service, FBI, and the CIA, each of which agencies compiled dossiers on Kitt. Their questions and interviews of Kitt's professional associates were probably what had a chilling effect on Kitt's career. I don't think anyone alive knows for certain if Lady Bird or LBJ personally requested such tactics. In Lady Bird's case, I rather think not. In LBJ's case- well, that's another story. And it's always possible that overzealous Feds went to work without any prodding from either of the Johnsons.
The moral of the story is: If you get invited to the White House, tell your hostess how lovely she looks, and how charming the house is. Shake hands, smile, drink your tea, and GO. Politics can wait. In fact, they'd better. Eartha Kitt has been telling her version of events for forty years without once admitting that she was guilty of supreme rudeness, no matter how justifed her position.