To William and all the detractors, have you read Jerome's post #29?
In my experience the number 1 reason for human suffering throughout history and across the globe, by far, is the belief our own sentience, perception, and experience of reality is universal to everyone. Leading people to think the behavior of others is a conscious choice or driven out of Machiavellianism to serve some self fulfilling goal. When such could not be further from truth or reality.
Ableism doesn't fix, change or heal people. Much the opposite. Punishment doesn't change, fix, or heal people. Demands don't change, fix or heal people.
Self centered world views are the root of all evil. This wouldn't be your fault, as every facet of society was mistakenly built upon the idea of "wanna" instead of "can't" hence most people do not know any better.
People do well if they can. People are not able fly not because they don't want to fly. People are not able to fly because they can't.
"can't" instead of "wants" is the discovery, the E=MC2 of tomorrow.
Jerome is trying harder than anyone else on this site, by light years.
Empathy is a wonderful thing for everybody.