Speed Queens are very good machines.......
BUT...with the issues you are having with children, and all things in general...ALL the more reason to have spares and a backup of some sort...
way before I found this site, or had upwards of ten kids, I had two washers/dryers, extra fridge and freezer, portable dishwasher....
it only took once for the washer to break down, two weeks for repair, to open my eyes to have a backup.....
after this is all said and done, I would be searching and looking for a way to make this happen, SO that you are not put in this position again.....this should be a lesson well learned.....if not, your only doomed to repeat it again someday....
even a wringer or twin tub would work for you at this point...
I wonder if we could send Tide loads-of-hope truck to give Dave a hand...
I agree....this would be a good time for a wash-in