poor John
Don't worry about John's comments, Chetlaham. He is big on unsubstantiated opinion. As this and other posts show, he goes on the attack against anyone whose opinion is contrary to his. I have always said he wants to be king of this site and his comments are proving this. He wants to take control of this site and censor others who do not think as he does.
Look at the quote: "Chat, you need to think for yourself, and not follow others." Chetlaham, you are thinking for yourself, and you are not following John's grossly biased opinions, that is why he is chastising you.
What John is meaning is that you need to to think like him and follow him...only.
If John becomes administrator of this site, that will be its downfall. That will be the end of an open and free forum for those who love appliances. It will become John's vehicle to further promote his biases and opinions. John consistently fabricates to reinforce his opinions, uses exaggerations and false generalizations instead of data. He presents his options as if they were reality, and they are not. They are just opinions and nothing more. John has experiences to share, but they often mean little when they are expressed and colored through bias.
John is often a toxic presence on this site. This site is to not force one's opinions on others, nor to bully others when they don't agree with you.
He has just given evidence to thus, by his retaliatory comments to Chetlaham because he had the audacity to challenge John's biased opinions.
This is a wonderful site. We have so many talented individuals with knowledge and experience to share. We are here to learn, share and to help and be supportive of each other.
Robert has been an exemplary site administrator. His experience, intellect and leadership have allowed him to create a wonderful site. He is respectful of all the members and has earned our respect in return.
If John becomes site administratior, it likely will become the John Show, a site dedicated to building his ego and deleting anyone who disagrees with him. I am sure to be the first to go, ha. John has already asked for me to be removed asca member of this site. I am one of the few who stand up against John's badgering of others who disagree and the denigrating of our members who don't share his biases.
I am seeing more people who are standing up to John. His negative behavior is becoming more pronounced. As previously mentioned, I have been getting more supportive personal messages from members who tire of John's bombastic and disrespectful treatment of those who disagree with him.
A member should not have to be afraid to make a comment for fear of being humiliated by others. John's negative comments toward me don't bother me and I have no trouble calling him out for his disrespectful treatment of others. But other members do get hurt by his attacks. It's not right. It is not the members responsibility to build another person's ego and support their emotional insecurities. It's not their responsibility to have to endure humiliation and degradation when they post an opinion, and/or state facts, contrary to another member's.
We are all equal on this site and we all have an equal right to express our viewpoints and to share our opinions, and experiences. Now we have a member who is wanting to take control of this site, censor it and "control" (per his own words) it for his own personal edification. That is not right.
If Robert feels he needs to step down as site administrator, we can understand. He has created an extraordinary site, and has put an unbelievable amount on of time and energy into it. We all fully understand his need to take a break.
If we have to sadly say good-bye to Robert, then let's get an administrator who supports and respects all members of this site and does not use it as a personal tool to build his ego and force his biased opinions upon us.
We are here to share, care and learn... respectfully.
[this post was last edited: 5/26/2024-12:54]