Douglas,
I appreciate your liberal tendencies (liberal as in Ron Paul, not liberal as in my progressive leanings).
Unfortunately, when those of us who are gay and in partnerships seek to protect our partners and ourselves through those legal contracts which supposedly grant us hospital access, inheritance rights, etc., they are frequently challenged. By the time the courts have ruled against the monsters who deny gay men and women the right to be with their partner at their death bed, it is too late.
Tax benefits, immigration, there are over 1,000 areas in which we are discriminated against.
Either repeal all state recognition for all marriages or make us equal.
Everything else is neither a liberal position nor fair.