Affairs of the heart

[petek]

I have never tried an online dating service only for the fact I haven't had to so I can't comment on those but I think getting yourself physically out and about is the way to go. Force yourself out and attend some of these groups like Pflag, go to a few Unitarian Fellowship meetings, don't just go once or twice and drop it, force yourself to go and give yourself and them time to get to know you and there's a good chance after that some one or something or some event leading to a meeting is going to happen. It just may not be right away but in the meantime you're networking. That's the word "networking"

 

[bethann]

OK MR.!

Damn it Veg! First off you have to love you!( I've told you that fifteen times!)

Your a wonderful person!

Men are pigs!, it took me until I was thirty to find Dean. When it is the right time it will happen. Don't settle for any ol' Tom, Dick, or Harry. Your to good for that! The attitude that you feel toward yourself refects what people see. What I'm saying is if you feel crappy about you then people pick up on it. Who the hell wants someone that feels crappy about themselves? Not me! If you feel like you can conquer the world and are happy then people find that attractive. Your mate is suppose to be someone that lifts you up in life, not a buzz kill! So, Stop it! Change the attitude!

Remember when you were here and we were taking pictures? You were a little uncomfortable at first. But, then you seen them.You had this sparkle in your eye! I know you felt good about yourself!

Now for the real ass chewing! Stop being so damn lazy and find someone over there to fix that damn hair! I know it's work but, get over it and do it! I have take care of my hair all the time, it's not going to kill you! You had a different attitude. ( That was a lot better! )
OK, I'm done bitching, for now!

Just as a little reminder! Check out the sexy sparkle!

 

[jasonl]

MEN ARE NOT PIGS!

OK, enough male bashing already! Men are MEN because that's how God created them. Like it or leave it.

Second of all Veg, you're very good looking. MUCH better looking than me. I can't believe someone wouldn't want you. But like I said, if *I* can find someone, so you can you. Same goes for Mr. Appnut with his new Frigemore.

And to the "men bashers", no offense, but stop blaming MEN for everything.

Cake anyone?

 

[bethann]

Jason, I guess I should have said, "People are pigs"

It just so happenes that I am a straight female and that is all I have had to deal with in relationships.

Now, this for Eugene!

 

[jasonl]

Bethan

Yes, people are pigs. No matter the gender. Relationships suck until you find the right one. Geez, took me 35 years and alot of rejection and heartbreaks to find Helen.

 

[scott55405]

Bethann, another great cake! I admired Bob's cake earlier in the thread. You did a wonderful job decorating it. What kind of cake is it? How many layers?

 

[bethann]

Hi Scott

It's a Canasta cake, (aka Pain in the ass-ta cake)! Three layers, it's a VERY rich fudge chocolate, and the Canasta icing is real fluffy, it sorta has a hint of salt to it. I know it sounds weird but, the two blend very well together.

 

[jasonl]

sounds good to me

Who's making the coffee?

 

[gadgetgary]

Ding, Ding, Ding....

Someone said CAW-FEE????

 

[veg-o-matic]

Gee, Gary--it's a Dazey!

Veg

 

[oxydolfan1]

Don't mean to be nosy, but, how you doing, veg?

 

[veg-o-matic]

Not nosy at all

In fact, thanks for asking.

Well. It seems my ad on Yahoo got a nibble. I've been corresponding with a very nice man who lives in Frederick (about an hour away) and is looking for the same things I am. We were on the phone last night and there was plenty of laughing and giggling, which I take as a good sign. We will be having lunch on Friday. I'm not sure whether to call it a "date" or not. Guess it depends on whether there's any smooching. I'm pretty sure that's what moves it into the "date" category.

And get this: He thinks I'm "charming." No, really! I mean, could you die or what?

So if y'all wouldn't mind keeping your fingers crossed for me on Friday, I'd sure appreciate it. I can just picture myself turning on both watts of charm, smiling and laughing handsomely...with a big ol' wad of spinach between my teeth.

veg

 

[Unimatic1140]

Hi Veg, oh that is wonderful news. I have everything is crossed for you for Friday, fingers, legs, eyes

 

[retromom]

Now Veg....

We all know how charming you are!! I have contorted myself into a yoga-like crossing of limbs to ensure your good luck on Friday!!

We want to hear all the details on Monday, Mister!!

 

[pdub]

I'm excited for you Veg...

Having done the online dating scene several years ago I know the excitement you get when you feel a click with someone during the introduction period. I'm sure you are floating on a cloud right now. I have been following this thread and wish you nothing but the best. Keep your head high and enjoy all the feelings that come from knowing someone likes you. If for some reason this person isn't exactly what you are looking for don't fear, the right one WILL come along.

Patrick

 

[jasonl]

The perfect couple:

Mr. Right and Mrs. Always Right.

or in the case here.

Mr. Right (Veg) and Mr. Always Right (the other guy).

 

[retromom]

What's it gonna be Veg?

Take it from a 23-year Mrs. Always Right...my two favourite words..."Yes Dear"! ;-)

 

[sudsman]

Hope it goes well for you Veg

If no just hang right in there there is SOMEOME looking for YOU too!!!

 

[veg-o-matic]

I know what's what!

Venus, I've had the same "work wife" for the last ten years. "Yes, dear" became a major part of my vocabulary a looonnnnnng time ago!

veg

 

[Maytagmom]

Vegalicious!

Good luck on your "date" Friday. You know everyone here will be rootin' for ya!

Go and have fun. Don't go with high expectations. If it's meant to be, you could be having dessert by evening...LOL

That's why smart housewives always keep cool-whip in the fridge. ;-) (Or Redi-whip if your into making those fancy swirls)