I totally agree that men are pigs. Most of them anyway. I know a few exceptions--myself included. See? I can give myself credit.
Good for you Veg, now stop that right now and be a pig like the rest of us LOL, just kidding. I’ve been a complete pig at times so I can’t talk.
I've taken a lot of pictures, been satisfied with one of them. I'll keep taking more but...
Ahhh Ha! There’s part of the problem right there. You only have ONE picture that you are satisfied with, that’s not enough, you need at least five. Keep snapping those shots Veg, this is not easy to do and it’s very time consuming. And by the way, these pictures need to be cuter or hotter than you “think” you really are. You need to post pictures of yourself that you look at and say, “wow I look in the mirror and I’m definitely not that cute, so how did I managed to take that picture”. We are all our own worst enemies and we look in the mirror we all see our imperfections a lot bigger than other people around us see them. So you can’t take a really hot picture of yourself and say “I can’t post that, that’s just a lucky shot, it would be like telling a lie”. Well that’s nonsense, because it really is YOU in that photo. I remember when I did this at first I got almost no responses, but when I started experimenting with the pictures is when I quickly learned what sells and what doesn’t.
I'll take your--and everybody else's--advice and tweak my profile. I'm just trying to be honest here, and I know what I see in the mirror each morning. Yeah, yeah, but just ask anyone who's seen me in person. So there.
You don’t have to lie, but you if your ad sounds comfortable and completely confident others will see it as a challenge to “get you”. And what you see in the mirror isn’t necessarily representative of what others will see.
Oh, the "too old/too ugly" reponses were "canned" ones that Yahoo provides for the less-than-tactful. No escaping the meaning, though.
Veg, you gonna get rejected, I know I did many times and I know your friend who hangs out at manhunt and has guys chasing him all the time gets rejected too. If he tells you otherwise he is not being honest, cause it happens to everyone and it happens a lot. When it happens it best to quickly forget and move onto the next twenty five fish in the sea.
As for manhunt, yeah, I'm thinking that might have been a mistake
Nonsense, have some fun for god sakes, just be safe and don’t expect anything more from these little “dates” then just a passing thrill.
Jason is right, being on the hunt sucks, your self esteem is going to be on a roller coaster, but in the end it will be worth it all. Kelly’s book idea, 100 Ways to Get Laid sounds like a good idea as well. Just keep an open mind and don’t expect too much, this is probably going to take a while.
Good for you Veg, now stop that right now and be a pig like the rest of us LOL, just kidding. I’ve been a complete pig at times so I can’t talk.
I've taken a lot of pictures, been satisfied with one of them. I'll keep taking more but...
Ahhh Ha! There’s part of the problem right there. You only have ONE picture that you are satisfied with, that’s not enough, you need at least five. Keep snapping those shots Veg, this is not easy to do and it’s very time consuming. And by the way, these pictures need to be cuter or hotter than you “think” you really are. You need to post pictures of yourself that you look at and say, “wow I look in the mirror and I’m definitely not that cute, so how did I managed to take that picture”. We are all our own worst enemies and we look in the mirror we all see our imperfections a lot bigger than other people around us see them. So you can’t take a really hot picture of yourself and say “I can’t post that, that’s just a lucky shot, it would be like telling a lie”. Well that’s nonsense, because it really is YOU in that photo. I remember when I did this at first I got almost no responses, but when I started experimenting with the pictures is when I quickly learned what sells and what doesn’t.
I'll take your--and everybody else's--advice and tweak my profile. I'm just trying to be honest here, and I know what I see in the mirror each morning. Yeah, yeah, but just ask anyone who's seen me in person. So there.
You don’t have to lie, but you if your ad sounds comfortable and completely confident others will see it as a challenge to “get you”. And what you see in the mirror isn’t necessarily representative of what others will see.
Oh, the "too old/too ugly" reponses were "canned" ones that Yahoo provides for the less-than-tactful. No escaping the meaning, though.
Veg, you gonna get rejected, I know I did many times and I know your friend who hangs out at manhunt and has guys chasing him all the time gets rejected too. If he tells you otherwise he is not being honest, cause it happens to everyone and it happens a lot. When it happens it best to quickly forget and move onto the next twenty five fish in the sea.
As for manhunt, yeah, I'm thinking that might have been a mistake
Nonsense, have some fun for god sakes, just be safe and don’t expect anything more from these little “dates” then just a passing thrill.
Jason is right, being on the hunt sucks, your self esteem is going to be on a roller coaster, but in the end it will be worth it all. Kelly’s book idea, 100 Ways to Get Laid sounds like a good idea as well. Just keep an open mind and don’t expect too much, this is probably going to take a while.
